Gelila Bekele searches for stability. She wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for her life. But her efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, she is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time she reaches what she believes to be a good balance, she realizes she wants something entirely different. She should become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.
Born under a new moon, Gelila Bekele enjoys a positive balance between the conscious and unconscious aspects of her psyche. Her determination and sensitivity balance one another and work together harmoniously. Her inner life contributes to the relationships with other people which make up her outer life. Her parents or teachers probably gave her the type of education which was adapted to her personality. As a result, her personality is basically balanced, which, of course, does not mean that her life is devoid of little asperities. Generally, the goals she sets for herself correspond to her skills. Without giving the matter much thought, she tends to follow prevailing trends and behaves in a conventional enough way. She is subjective and sees the world according to her own perceptions instead of the way it really is.
Gelila Bekele has great strength of character. Her courage and endurance enable her to accomplish even extremely arduous tasks. Although she sometimes behaves impulsively, she generally knows how to plan out an effective strategy, and, as a result, she reaches her goals without meeting any major obstacles. Her forcefulness gives her certain leadership skills, which she may implement to creative and constructive ends.
You are sober and rather reserved, and people may find you harsh and austere at times. You were raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety, and as a result, grew up very fast. You have acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency, and are rather uncompromising. You have a touchy sense of your personal dignity and worth, and it is almost as though you were fighting an inner battle with your father or a father figure. The psychological models you received from your father or a father figure as a result of your interaction and your own interaction with authority may not have played a major role in shaping your relationships with the outer world and society. You may thus have been forced to compensate for this lack with individual determination. As a result, although you are skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, a lack of self-confidence and personal assurance sometimes makes you timid and hesitant. You sometimes feel as though you are only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. You tend to be far too critical of yourself, and rarely feel satisfied that you are living up to your ideal. These unnecessary guilt feelings may lead you to turn down the prominent career positions for which you are fully qualified. You are aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile, and that time rewards those who know how to be patient and persistent, like you.
You are an individualist who believes in freedom and independence as the most important values in life. You have rejected the conventional values of your social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. You are passionate about your convictions, but this can sometimes cause problems in your relationships. You should learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people. If you don’t, you are likely to be embroiled in conflictual relationships. Your rebellious behavior may stem from your relationship with your father or teachers when you were younger. For some reason, you have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, in the same way you do now with conventional values. Every important life decision you make is up to you, and you must rely on yourself to figure out the right behavior and set limits on your desires.
Gelila Bekele prefers to stick to a pre-established plan, preferring to act in a methodical way. She often adopts strict models that have been developed based on logical or moral reasons. She is not always open about her personal feelings and may come across as a rigid person. However, her conscientiousness and skills make her thrive in a work environment. She also enjoys engaging in social activities and views them as a way to fulfil her duty. Her natural taste for clarity, detail, and technique would make her successful as a scientist or high-tech designer.
Gelila Bekele has a lively, agile, and sensitive intellect. However, she does not always avail herself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although she enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, her thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. She is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste her nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Moreover, her feelings sometimes blur her objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause her to make errors in judgment.
Gelila Bekele has a sensitive nature. Although she may sometimes have trouble controlling her emotional reactions, they are nevertheless a source of vital energy for a constructive passion and may make an extremely positive contribution to her career. In relations with other people, she is quite friendly; she willingly reaches out to people and knows how to listen to their desires and their problems.
Gelila Bekele is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find her generous almost to a fault! She gives of herself and her resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when she is self-focused. She reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and is prone to misjudge. As a result, her everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, she senses a conflict between her social life and her family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill herself in both spheres at the same time. Her attitude toward her private life may inhibit her ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on her private life. She should be careful not to project her personal problems onto her partner. If, instead, the two of them analyzed the problem, they might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.
You are emotional and tend to react suddenly and excessively as soon as your sensitivity is touched. Although you feel that your independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, you are sometimes frustrated by your need to rely on your family or friends. Moreover, you do not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as your own. Likewise, you are sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if you feared that it would doom you to eternal dependency. Your ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship you had with your mother or a mother figure. Although you were dependent on them, they may have rejected you. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which your sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off your feelings of dependency, you sometimes tend to become destructive. Based on denial, your reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Gelila Bekele tries to express her affections in the most graceful and harmonious way possible. Indeed, she has an innate sense of harmony and strives for a love relationship characterized by balance and perfection. She tends to idealize both her partner and the institution of marriage. Any disillusionment she encounters in the pursuit of her ideal may be experienced as a frustration. She does not always ply her powers of seduction skillfully.
Gelila Bekele’s birth chart indicates that she has an emotional function that is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. She distrusts her emotional urges and is somewhat wary of her feelings, trying to rid herself of all partiality and get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Gelila Bekele must straddle two important principles of her personality. She is both sensitive and intelligent, as well as hypersensitive and hyperemotive, which may inspire her to try to relieve others of their suffering and carry the whole world on her shoulders. The return from her dreams to reality is always traumatic for her psyche. It will be difficult for her to find fulfillment alone; aware of this, she will seek out someone who can protect her, as well as act as a guide.
After all the heartache you’ve been through, your search for the perfect partner is likely to be difficult. But you would find a solitary or single life unbearable. On the other hand, your willingness to compromise may cause you to end up with a partner who is too austere or too serious and who smothers your sensitivity.
Gelila Bekele has a fairly skeptical temperament which relies on remarkable analytical and critical faculties. She is sensitive and curious, a keen observer of facts who collects detailed information she will later pore over and analyze. This type of logical, rational mind is extremely efficient for elaborating methods or sorting and classifying information. However, she sometimes lacks flexibility or broad-mindedness.
Gelila Bekele expresses her thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. She is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, she looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.