Darren Hayes searches for stability; he wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for his life. But his efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, he is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time he reaches what he believes to be a good balance, he realizes he wants something entirely different. He would do well to become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.

You are an individualist who believes in freedom and independence. You have abandoned the conventional lifestyle of your social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions can be difficult to live with, as you are uncompromising in your relationships. You should learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to others. If you don’t, you are likely to get embroiled in conflicting relationships. The roots of your extreme behavior may be traced back to your relationship with your father or teachers when you were growing up. For one reason or another, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, in the same way as you currently reject conventional values. In every important decision you make as an adult, you must rely on yourself to develop the appropriate behavior. And, as with all important life decisions, you must impose limits on your desires in relation to reality and the law.

Darren Hayes is hypersensitive. He is automatically able to perceive the parapsychic signals or aura people give off, as well as their words. As a result, he is extremely compassionate and ready to devote himself to their well-being. His imagination has formulated the dream of an ideal life, and he sometimes feels ill-equipped for the realities of this existence. He tends to dodge difficult situations. With his partner, he seeks fusion.

Darren Hayes is an optimistic and happy person. He is cheerful and expansive, and he is pleasant to be around. He is generous, and he gives of himself and his belongings unstintingly. This positive psychological outlook is the result of a happy childhood and an extremely beneficial maternal influence in infancy. Darren is quite likely to be a professional success; his vision of the world is perfectly adapted to prevailing opinion, and his urges and desires for personal expansion usually elicit a positive reaction from society. By old age, his good reputation and prominence may have earned him fame.

Although your demeanor is cool and distant, you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. It is difficult for your inner self to be detached from this past life, and you sometimes have trouble reconciling the image you have of yourself as an adult with the one you acquired back then. The idea you have of yourself as an individual is related to the image your parents projected onto you as a child. Nevertheless, the past is history, and you are now an adult. It should be easy for you to rid yourself of these phantoms through self-work. You have the ability to overcome your mistakes and great endurance and will power to achieve your goals. However, you must not repress your sensitivity in order to succeed.

Darren Hayes sometimes finds it difficult to cope with the challenges of life, feeling overwhelmed by the sensitivities and emotions of the world. In his dreams, he may find a refuge from the harsh realities of the outside world. However, by indulging in dreams, he may also open himself up to difficulties in his personal life.

Darren Hayes has a sensitive and imaginative mind, which can sometimes be a problem when it comes to distinguishing dreams from reality. Although his fertile imagination provides a rich source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it can be less helpful and positive when it comes to his self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient in matters of a relationship. In Darren Hayes’ world, love is very romantic and he often sees others the way he wishes they were rather than the way they are.

Darren Hayes enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of his expression. He is a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of his affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. He may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.

Darren Hayes’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. He distrusts his emotional urges and is somewhat wary of his feelings, so he tries to rid himself of all partiality and get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

Darren Hayes’ hypersensitivity and extreme emotionalism might present challenges. They cause his feelings and emotional bonds to rule his destiny. Unable to refuse when someone appeals to his sense of devotion, he may be gobbled up by an unscrupulous person. If this happens, he may even be happy about his self-denial. Otherwise, his happiness will derive from a snug home.

Darren Hayes enjoys flirting and has fun with love. He prefers verbal exchanges and has a lighthearted approach to love. He avoids intense passion and believes that playing the game of love can have few serious consequences.

Darren Hayes has the impulsive, ardent nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of his main purposes in life. His personal charm and magnetism give him nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of his well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of his desires. Due to his impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, his approach to members of the other sex may sometimes lack delicacy.

You are an intensely complex individual, with a wide range of emotions and desires. You can be emotionally vulnerable, which can lead to you trying to control your own feelings and impulses as well as those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself terrifies you. This anguish can fuel some rather extreme behavior patterns and a self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.

Darren Hayes is an intuitive thinker. He does not reason things out through a long, articulate, logical discourse; instead, he seize the visions or insights that spontaneously flash into his consciousness. He thus has a form of immediate knowledge of various phenomena which is based neither on reasoning nor on any elaborate thought process or method. As a result, if he is an extrovert, he will possess an inventive, innovative spirit gifted for improvisation. If he is an introvert, his mind will be an abundant source of personal inner truths.