Bobby Bonilla is fairly individualistic and tends to mingle with groups for their competitive atmosphere, but he rarely joins in them wholeheartedly. He prefers to work on his own projects independently, but has difficulty with confidence issues and lacks self-esteem. This can create challenges in relationships.
Bobby Bonilla was born under a new moon, when the moon and sun were in the same part of the sky. He enjoys a positive balance between the conscious and unconscious aspects of his psyche, which contributes to the relationships he has with other people. His determination and sensitivity balance one another and work together harmoniously. His inner life contributes to the goals he sets for himself, which correspond to his skills. Without giving the matter much thought, he tends to follow prevailing trends and behave in a conventional enough way. He is subjective and sees the world according to his own perceptions, instead of the way it really is.
You are an individualist who is convinced that your most precious basic values are freedom and independence. You have thrown off what you perceive as the burden of the convention and customs of your social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions, bordering on proselytism, sometimes trouble your relationships, as you may be an uncompromising partner. You would do well to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people, or you are liable to find yourself continually embroiled in conflicting relationships. The roots of your somewhat extreme behavior probably lie in your relationship with your father or your teachers in childhood and adolescence. For one reason or another, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, in the same way as you now refuse to adopt any values related to convention, tradition, or widespread usage. In every important life decision you make as an adult, you are forced to rely on yourself to elaborate the appropriate behavior, and the limits you must impose on your desires in relation to reality and the law.
Bobby Bonilla feels a great deal of energy in order to ensure that his private life expresses freedom and independence. He is skittish when it comes to any profound involvement in a relationship, so he tends to intellectualize his emotions and feelings and feel as though he can live more easily on friendship than on love. Extremely socially-minded but idealistic, Bobby Bonilla almost certainly feels an affinity with the ideals of some social reform movement. His imagination looks to the future.
You are emotional and tend to react suddenly and excessively as soon as your sensitivity is touched. Although you feel that your independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, you are sometimes frustrated by your need to rely on your family or friends. Moreover, you do not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as your own. Likewise, you are sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if you feared that it would doom you to eternal dependency. Your ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship you had with your mother or a mother figure. Although you were dependent on them, they may have rejected you. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which your sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off your feelings of dependency, you sometimes tend to become destructive. Based on denial, your reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Bobby Bonilla is sometimes afraid to love. The world of his feelings is characterized by a certain chill and restraint. But Bobby Bonilla is not unfeeling; on the contrary, his sensitivity is so delicate that he is careful to protect it. His determination to maintain control of his feelings and force his emotions to obey the laws of reason may stand in the way of intimacy and joy.
Bobby Bonilla’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, Bobby is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Bobby Bonilla is a person who attracts others with their joy and warmth. They sense things intensely and as a result get drawn into incomprehensible affairs.
Bobby Bonilla is ambitious and quite aware of his own worth, and there is nothing romantic or sentimental about his attitude to relationships. If he marries, his relationship will have to be a smooth-running ‘business’ that serves his social ambitions, but this is not necessarily the best route to emotional fulfillment and happiness.
Bobby Bonilla is characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive him to seek pleasure. His need for romantic fulfillment may compel him to marry, because he also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that he had indeed achieved success. However, privately, he might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.
Bobby Bonilla was a flexible individual who drew on sudden flashes of intuition as well as logical, rational thought. He had progressive, inventive, and sometimes utopian ideas; they usually related to human or social problems. He always strived to be in the vanguard, creating a better world for the future.
Bobby Bonilla expresses his thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. He is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, he looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.
You have a lively and agile spirit, but you tend to apply your mental abilities in a somewhat haphazard and disorderly way. You are curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences with an attitude free of either dogmatism or prejudice. Your extremely lively mind leads you to have an opinion on every subject. Although you enjoy manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses others and yourself with witty remarks, your conversations could collapse into argument and conflict. Because you are often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform your ideas, you are sometimes misunderstood. You are often blind to the rashness of your judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around you. Actually, your overriding need to assert yourself as an individual sometimes defeats discussion and prevents you from listening to the other person fairly. But if you were to succeed in disciplining your mind somewhat, you would have innumerable opportunities to apply your communications skills to a great career. Moreover, you should be careful of your nerves, which are fairly high-strung. Any physical fitness activity would be beneficial; an Eastern discipline such as yoga or Tai-chi-chuan could teach you how to relax and improve control of your nervous and mental energies.
You have a brilliant mind and an innate understanding of complex concepts. However, your thought processes tend to be slow due to a failure or humiliation from your formative years. You are inhibited and pessimistic, doubting yourself and your intellectual skills despite your undeniable gifts. You should become aware of your thought patterns and habits and work to change them in order to achieve greater success. Your mind is deep and accurate, and you are attracted to the essence of things and their fundamental structure. As a result, you are particularly suited to the study of mathematics, architecture, engineering, or perhaps even politics. Your contribution to society will be most lasting and effective in the field of knowledge and expertise. However, you will have to learn to work alone and conquer your impatience. Additionally, you should find the courage to question your convictions.
Bobby Bonilla has a great deal of intuition, but sometimes has problems organizing his thought processes and making an intellectual commitment. The concepts of boundary and structure are inimical to his mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. His thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. He tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, he can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although his perceptions are lively and subtle, he may display a kind of absent-mindedness out of a fear of annoying people with his shrewdness or of fighting to assert himself. His imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.