If Bobby Bonilla wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. His preference for illusion, his hypersensitivity, his emotionalism, his lack of self-confidence, and his guilt are all potential weaknesses which may be hindering his progress.

You sometimes struggle with the conflict between wanting to achieve social and professional success and needing a stable and secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and have difficulty reconciling their demands on you. Sometimes it feels as if you will never be able to find a balance. However, no promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true foundation and basis of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.