Bo-mi Kim is a serious, steadfast individual who tries to stay grounded. Her ambitions are strong, and she will always be seeking a higher social position. She sometimes adopts a strategy of solitude and introversion.

Bo-mi Kim has a paternal complex. This means that she has trouble finding her identity because she didn’t have a father or a father figure in her life. Because she lacked this type of security, she had to protect herself from negative influences and find her own system in order to grow. However, her system has settled into a way that it’s now interfering with her growth. She has psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful, but now they’re inhibiting her development. As a result, in some situations she’s difficult to assert herself and she tends to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because her authoritarian urges are mainly directed at herself, she sometimes feels guilty about her behavior. She judges herself severely and sometimes punishes herself by setting difficult tasks for herself. Gradually, she’ll build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

Bo-mi Kim was born under the auspices of the two celestial lights, the sun and the moon. This is an auspicious sign of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes, which is beneficial for Bo-mi. It is the source of balance and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of Bo-mi’s personality, between her determination and her routines, between her drive for self-assertion and her receptivity, her ideal and her sensitivity. Her parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to Bo-mi, and it is likely that they encouraged Bo-mi to develop her own individuality. As a result, Bo-mi was and is able to be comfortable with herself as she is instead of striving to attain her parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. Bo-mi’s emotional relationships with her peers are primarily constructive, as the images her ego projects onto the other are not felt to be constraints. The bonds of the relationship are not seen as a source of regret, as the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other,” which is the significant other in Bo-mi’s life.

Bo-mi Kim is vigorous and energetic. She has an immense need to assert her individuality and her attitudes and actions are actually motivated by an unconscious desire for power. Her lively, alert, and determined behavior puzzles the people close to her, who cannot understand whether her behavior is the result of pure selfishness or merely of an excess of energy. She has a short temper and must learn to control her impulsiveness, which might expose her to a great deal of unnecessary conflict.

You are an individualist who believes in freedom and independence. You have abandoned what you see as the unnecessary conventions of your social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions can sometimes lead to conflicts with others, as you are an uncompromising partner. You need to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people. If you do not learn to do this, you are likely to have continual conflicts in your relationships. The roots of your behavior may be in your relationship with your father or teachers when you were young. For some reason, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father. In the same way, you may have rejected conventional values and refused to follow the path of others. Every important decision you make as an adult is up to you to define. You must rely on yourself to figure out what the appropriate behavior is and what limits you must impose on your desires.

Bo-mi Kim is very sociable. She is instinctively in tune with others and is tactful and diplomatic. She also loves harmony and order. As a result, she is sensitive and discerning when it comes to artistic matters. She is sometimes offended by the harsh demands of existence. Relationships (the couple, or a partnership) are very important to her.

Bo-mi Kim maintain strong ties with her past, and it often seem difficult for her to open her heart to new people. Her love affairs might exist on the surface level, because her lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for her to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.

Bo-mi Kim has a sensitive personality. She may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. She is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in her behavior may be explained by emotional problems she may have experienced in infancy: her mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.

The person you are reading this about is emotionally sensitive and prone to reacting suddenly and excessively to things that upset them. Although they value their independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency, they sometimes feel frustrated by their need to rely on others or be depended on. Additionally, they don’t always grant other people the same level of freedom and respect that they themselves are afforded. Additionally, they can be angry with expressions of maternal tenderness, as if they feel that it will doom them to dependency. Their behavior can be traced back to their relationship with their mother or a mother figure. Although they were dependent on her, she may have rejected them. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which they feel emotional bonds could form. To avoid being dependency, they sometimes lash out in destructive ways. Based on denial, their reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.

Bo-mi Kim finds it difficult to distinguish dreams from reality. Although her bubbling imagination provides an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it can be less helpful and positive when it comes to matters that concern her self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient in a relationship. In Bo-mi Kim’s opinion, relationships are extremely romantic and she does not always see others the way they really are.

Bo-mi Kim has a romantic nature and is seeking a soulmate. The world of her emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule her sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.

Bo-mi Kim’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, Bo-mi Kim is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

Bo-mi Kim is paradoxically self-focused because she is a consummate charmer and cannot bear not being loved. She craves admiration and adulation – unconsciously, she dreams of becoming a star. If she finds fulfillment in love, all her worldly, psychological, and artistic qualities will thrive.

Bo-mi Kim enjoys simple pleasures and satisfactions that endure the tests of time and legal sanctions like marriage. She delights in loving a person who takes meticulous care of her and makes sure she lives like royalty. She tends to loathe complications and knots in her emotional and romantic commitments.

Bo-mi Kim has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of her main purposes in life. Her personal charm and magnetism give her nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of her well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of her desires. Due to her impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, her approach to potential partners may sometimes lack delicacy.

You are an ardent and amorous person, and your relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Your greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although you merge your ego entirely into the couple, you are likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If your partner charms and captivates you long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with you; otherwise, you are likely to yield to your need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for you.

Midlife may be a turning point for you from this point of view. Your contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Your behavior enables you to remain aloof, to commit yourself only halfway without consciously admitting it to yourself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when you lose interest.

An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps you from forming stable relationships. Indeed, you are tormented by the struggle between your undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, your romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by your conviction that your partner has become an obstacle to your individual progress. Because you think of love as a restraint, you may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, you will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, you are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires you to initiate a change in your behavior.

You have a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. You are emotive and hypersensitive, making you especially vulnerable emotionally, since you are sometimes overwhelmed by your feelings and affects. Although you seek an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom you could maintain blissful, smooth relations, you are sometimes met with disillusionment. Because your rather excessive sensitivity and your need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge your judgment and discernment, so you sometimes form extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When you meet someone, you fall under the enchantment of your dream of ideal love and cannot keep yourself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, you yield to another of your characteristic urges and lose yourself in the individual who is so dear to you, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find yourself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, your psyche is constructed in such a way as to make your sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before you take on any major commitments, you should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates your intense love, for you may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Your tendency to believe in your illusions may mark you as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for you to find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you tend to be so disappointed by your great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of your imagination procure artistic refinement for you, and you love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because your sensitivity also makes it easy for you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with, you might also find it rewarding to commit yourself to social work.

Bo-mi Kim is powerfully ruled by her determination and vital needs. Her intellectual abilities come to the forefront when her purpose is to communicate her ideal and plot her action or strategy. She can be both logical and astute and have gifts for theorizing but may sometimes lack perspective.