BJ Tanner is trying to overcome her feelings of insecurity. To do so, she needs a home: a dwelling, a territory, or perhaps a safe space or setting where she can rest, and let down her systems of defense against the outer world, which she finds aggressive and hostile. She is ready to make some sacrifices in order to maintain and consolidate the structure she has chosen. True inner security, based on real knowledge of herself, her abilities, and her shortcomings, her strengths and her weaknesses would no doubt be most effective and would allow her to remain open to the varieties of experience offered by the world.
BJ Tanner’s personality and behavior can be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling his psyche. Because his sensitivity is in conflict with his determination, his attitude and performance can sometimes be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, BJ has the feeling that he has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging his yearnings and fulfilling his ambitions. His unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of his conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage his plans. In his relationships, BJ builds up and projects on the other images that are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, might also annoy him. He could find it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.
BJ Tanner has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for her to gain access to this part of herself. She is confident in herself and life but may tend to be nonchalant. Sometimes she needs a little stimulation to get herself rolling and take some initiative. Her optimism and inner certainty do not always drive her to give her utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills she possesses are an advantage as well as a handicap. She makes use of her theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for her would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.
You are a very sensitive person who is highly receptive to your surroundings. Your individuality seems to be diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions, which are constantly washing over you. It can sometimes be difficult for you to communicate your feelings to other people, because you are flooded with emotion. This tide of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition, but it can also be difficult for you to grasp the essence of your dreams and share them with other people. You are not at all combative, and this can hinder your efforts to fit into society and assert yourself productively. You are likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but your refusal to abandon your unattainable dreams can be a psychological trap you have fallen into without realizing it. You must understand that by running away from your obligations and commitments, you only increase the feelings of guilt which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once you free yourself from this pernicious process, you have a great deal of potential for fulfilling yourself in the outer world, either by devoting yourself to some sort of social work or by cultivating your considerable artistic talents.
BJ Tanner is sociable by nature and is always in tune with others. She has a need to be accepted and respected and as a result is tactful and diplomatic. She is also sensitive and discerning and will avoid anything crude and vulgar. As a result, BJ Tanner is sometimes offended by the harsh demands of existence. Relationships (the couple, or a partnership) take a central role in BJ Tanner’s life.
BJ Tanner has a lively and agile intellect. However, she does not always avail herself of it, and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although she enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, her thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. She is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste her nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Additionally, her feelings sometimes blur her objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause her to make errors in judgment.
Although your demeanor is cool and distant, you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself any emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. It is difficult for your inner self to be detached from this past life, and you sometimes have trouble reconciling the image you have of yourself as an adult with the one you acquired back then. It can be difficult for you to shake off these phantoms through self-work. You have the ability to overcome your mistakes, as well as great endurance and will power to achieve your goals. Nevertheless, you must not repress your sensitivity in order to succeed.
Although BJ Tanner desires to create a calm and harmonious emotional climate, sometimes friction with others arises. BJ Tanner’s vision of other people is sometimes clouded by feelings of insecurity, and BJ Tanner’s need to obtain acceptance at any price may sometimes drive him to make too many concessions or compromises.
In spite of your sensitivity and imaginative nature, you sometimes have trouble distinguishing dreams from reality. Although your imagination can be an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it often has less helpful and positive effects in matters concerning earning a decent living in the real world. In a relationship, you are extremely romantic and do not always see others the way they really are. You have elegant tastes and art and beauty are among your chief pleasures in life.
BJ Tanner enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of her expression. She is a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of her affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. She may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.
BJ Tanner’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
According to the aforesaid, BJ Tanner is unable to live alone; she feels as though she needs love in order to survive. She has an imperious need to please, an innate understanding of what others want, and a talent for making life pleasant. She feels that a wealthy partner is more apt to make a person happy than one who has financial problems.
BJ Tanner enjoys verbally and socially engaging in love, preferring to have fun with it rather than become passionately engaged. She enjoys flirting and has fun with the game of love, believing that it has few serious consequences when played this way.
BJ Tanner has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of BJ Tanner’s main purposes in life. BJ Tanner’s personal charm and magnetism give him nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of BJ Tanner’s well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of his desires. Due to BJ Tanner’s impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, BJ Tanner’s approach to members of the other sex may sometimes lack delicacy.
You are an individual of contradictions. On the one hand, you can be emotionally vulnerable, which can lead to you trying to control your feelings and impulses. On the other hand, you are afraid of abandonment, and this can cause you to act in ways that can damage your relationship. Life is often filled with crises and arguments, which can be a source of erotic stimulation for you. This stems from your tendency to see anxiety as a source of excitement. As a result, you are likely to be attracted to relationships that are turbulent and complex.
BJ Tanner is an intuitive thinker. She does not reason things out through a long, articulate, logical discourse; instead, she seize the visions or insights that spontaneously flash into her consciousness. She thus has a form of immediate knowledge of various phenomena which is based neither on reasoning nor on any elaborate thought process or method. As a result, if she is an extrovert, she will possess an inventive, innovative spirit gifted for improvisation. If she is an introvert, her mind will be an abundant source of personal inner truths.
BJ Tanner expresses her thoughts and ideas carefully, but with a relative lack of spontaneity. She is rather introverted and looks inside herself for the solutions to the problems she encounters in life. Because she tends to mistrust customary thought patterns, her opinion is usually highly personal.
BJ Tanner often finds it difficult to communicate with others because she is oriented inward. She rarely enjoys conversing with others for the simple pleasure of it, and she often feels misunderstood. Moreover, expressing the complexity of her inner perceptions is difficult for BJ Tanner.
In relations with other people, BJ Tanner’s behavior is usually kind and benevolent. She exerts a certain charm, knows how to speak persuasively and convincingly, and is adept at smoothing the asperities of what she has to say when it is necessary. This aspect of her personality is a great advantage to her socially; however, in situations where she must either compete or deal with direct conflict and hostility, she may be somewhat at a loss for how to behave. BJ Tanner has an undeniable gift for oratory which could be applied to a communications-related occupation or to artistic expression (as a stage or screen actor). Writing and dance, two other arts which associate expression and movement, might also be fields in which she would excel.
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