Be El Be searches for stability. She wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for her life. But her efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, she is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time she reaches what she believes to be a good balance, she realizes she wants something entirely different. She should become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.
At the moment of your birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This is a portent of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes, which is extremely beneficial. It is the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms, which may be said to compose the personality. You thus enjoy a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to you, and it is likely that they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you were and are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images your ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.
You are a sober and rather reserved person who may even strike people as harsh and austere at times. Perhaps you were raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety, and, as a result, grew up very fast. You have acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency, tend to be rather uncompromising, and have a touchy sense of your personal dignity and worth. It is almost as though you were fighting an inner battle with your father or a father figure. The psychological models you received from your father or a father figure as a result of your interaction and your own interaction with authority may not have played a major role in shaping your relationships with the outer world and society. You may thus have been forced to compensate for this with individual determination. As a result, although you are skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, a lack of self-confidence and personal assurance sometimes makes you timid and hesitant. You sometimes feel as though you are only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. You tend to be far too critical of yourself and rarely feel satisfied that you are living up to your ideal. These unnecessary guilt feelings may lead you to turn down the prominent career positions for which you are fully qualified. You are aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile and that time rewards those who know how to be patient and persistent, like you.
Be El Be usually behaves in a way that is motivated by social needs. When faced with difficult situations, choices must be made, and Be El Be is able to concentrate and solve problems by deductive reasoning. These abilities are what help her in times of crisis or during significant life changes.
Be El Be is pragmatic and realistic. She evaluates people and things according to practical, common-sense criteria instead of abstract concepts. A sensualist and lover of luxury, she has a penchant for material comfort and takes great joy in physical pleasures. In relation to others, socially and privately, she likes to build stable relationships and is not especially fond of change. Her warmth gives her a great deal of ease when meeting people, as clients (for business purposes), but her close relations also benefit from this affection and her ability to express her feelings naturally and openly.
The subject of the text is Be El Be. Be El Be has a sensitive personality which can lead to problems with relationships and career plans. Be El Be is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes through periods of feverish activity and periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in Be El Be’s behavior may be explained by emotional problems Be El Be experienced in infancy: Be El Be’s mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Although Be El Be is hypersensitive and imaginative, it can be difficult for him to distinguish dreams from reality. He is inspired by his imagination for creative and spiritual evolution, but it can be less helpful and positive in matters of earning a living. In a relationship, Be El Be is very romantic and sees others in a way that is not always true. He has elegant tastes and art and beauty are one of his chief pleasures in life.
Be El Be has a complicated relationship with her emotions and instincts. This inner conflict makes her a relatively difficult partner to be around, and her behavior can baffle others. She is often prone to switching between different attitudes, and sexuality is a big part of her life. Her relationships are often sparked by her desires, but she often struggles to reconcile and fulfill her emotional and sexual needs. This is because of the strength of her instincts, which can sometimes override her emotions. Passion can often overpower her, leading her into situations she can’t always control, which blend erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.
Be El Be is looking for the ideal love and tends to idealize her friends and lovers. A bizarre character, she may prefer to dream of her soulmate instead of making love to one; she is more in love with the idea of love than anything else. Her idealism may hide a fear of truly committing herself to a relationship; she tries to intellectualize everything. In time, two options will seem clear to her: an amorous friendship based on shared ideas and intellectual exchange, or an open relationship, free of all constraints except mutual respect.
Be El Be’s emotional function is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Be El Be radiated sweetness, charm, and innocence. She loved pleasing everyone and could not bear to offend. After some romantic uncertainties or mistakes, she would finally make a partner or spouse very happy. She adored country life and good cooking and thri on family life. She may also develop strong artistic talents.
Because El Be tends to be naive and idealistic when it comes to love, they may find themselves entangled in unlikely or at the least complicated emotional situations. In many cases, they will be irresistibly attracted to a person who is not at all right for them or whose aspirations are diametrically opposed to them. If they marry, their relationship may sometimes be conflicting.
Be El Be may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive her to seek pleasure. Her need for romantic fulfillment may compel her to marry, because she also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that she had indeed achieved success. However, privately, she might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.
Be El Be has a rather irrational mind and a voracious intellect, which is usually subject to the rule of her prolific imagination. Although she is likely to have flashes of intuition which may prove to be correct, her thought processes are sometimes messy and confused. Her mind, which is oriented in many different directions at the same time, is ruled by her emotions and feelings. In tune with psychic and parapsychic phenomena, her thinking requires only the adjunct of structure to rise from the level of a blurry, uncertain, undifferentiated mass to that of a really significant vision with a grip on the real world.
Be El Be express their thoughts and ideas carefully, but with a relative lack of spontaneity. They are rather introverted and look inside themselves for the solutions to the problems they encounter in life. Because they tend to mistrust customary thought patterns, their opinion is usually highly personal.
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