If you’re serious about becoming a better person, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses that may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These might include your perfectionism, your tendency to hyperfocus on minutiae, your over intellectualization, and your comfort with a constant state of worry.

Bayashi sometimes senses a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Bayashi can be hypersensitive and easily offended, although she frequently changes her opinion and doesn’t hold a grudge. She abhor conflict and is a good listener. Her key to self-improvement will be learning to control her impressionability.

Bayashi’s mental processes are lightning quick. As a result, she tends to jump to conclusions and make immediate decisions before she knows all the facts. This rash and impetuous behavior could cause communications problems and arouse needless opposition in others. Her mind is generally too busy with the immediate future to take time for careful analysis and reflection. She would do well to slow down and organize herself before she speaks, but the same behavior has a positive side. It can be of great use to her in rushed or quickly changing work situations, which require last-minute, immediate decisions.

Bayashi reacts peremptorily to all opposition and will brook no contradiction. Bayashi’s desires are sometimes imperious, and Bayashi expresses them impulsively, by fits and starts, which may elicit resentment and antagonism in Bayashi’s partners. Life will force Bayashi to set more universal goals and centers of interest for Bayashi self. It would be a good idea for Bayashi to release some excess internal tension through physical exercise.

Bayashi might set unrealistically high goals for themselves and find it difficult to keep track of their responsibilities. When it comes to their emotional relationships, Bayashi typically idealizes the potential partner in the beginning, putting them on a pedestal, but then they try to dodge their commitment and desperately plot to extricate themselves. In Bayashi’s other life pursuits, they often rush into activities without properly understanding what they’re getting themselves into. Life can step in and urge Bayashi to slow down, while also inducing Bayashi to take more patience and forethought into account when undertaking activities.