If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Arndrea Waters King has identified some of these weaknesses, which may be preventing you from evolving into the person you want to be.
You need to be aware of your coolness and distance, your lack of consideration for others, your rigidity, your need for total control, and your fear of your emotions. Each of these weaknesses can be a roadblock to your evolution, so it is important to address them. Be open to change and be willing to experiment in order to improve.

Arndrea Waters King tends to be rigid in relationships. In some extreme cases, she may be jealous. Because she has a great deal of emotional impact on the other, she sometimes feels invulnerable to any outside influence and will struggle with reexamining her own attitude.