AR-AB needs others in order to structure themselves. They intuitively sense this need and seek a balance between their individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return, although it sometimes eludes them. Marriage and friendship could be realms to which they are especially devoted, but they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.
At the moment of your birth, the two heavenly “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This is a sign of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes, which is extremely beneficial. It is the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms which may be said to compose the personality. You thus enjoy a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to you, and it is likely that they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you were and are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images your ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.
AR-AB has great strength of character. Her courage and endurance enables her to accomplish even extremely arduous tasks. Although she sometimes behaves impulsively, she generally knows how to plan out an effective strategy, and, as a result, she reaches her goals without meeting any major obstacles. Her forcefulness gives her certain leadership skills, which she may implement to creative and constructive ends.
AR-AB enjoys sharing and has a constant need for contact with other people. She tends to be free and uninhibited in her relations with other people, rarely allowing herself to be influenced by convention or prevailing opinion; she associates with whomever she pleases. This attitude makes her life refreshing and exciting, and she is never bored. In career terms, AR-AB is quite gifted for any field related to communication, where her intellectual singularity and lively wit would make her an amazing hit. She would also be likely to succeed in any activity where the work required a multidisciplinary approach: teaching, advertising, politics, etc.
You are a very sensitive person who absorbs your surroundings. You are quite individualistic and often lose track of what is going on around you because you are so focused on your feelings. This can make it difficult for you to communicate with other people. You are inspired by your emotions and have a strong intuition, but sometimes it is hard for you to understand your dreams and share them with others. You are not at all combative, and this often hinders your efforts to fit into society and achieve your goals. You are more likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but you have to be careful not to run away from your obligations and commitments. This will only make reality feel more distasteful and discourage you from fulfilling your potential. Once you break free from this cycle, you can achieve a great deal in the outside world.
AR-AB is usually cool and distant in demeanor. Repressing your feelings and sensitivity, AR-AB avoids the sort of situation where he might be forced to express them. This inhibition is related to a feeling of not having been loved enough. In many cases, to the detriment of his love life, AR-AB is capable of plunging all his energy into his work. Seeking social recognition through his career achievements, AR-AB is motivated by the need for recognition.
AR-AB’s intellect is lively, agile, and sensitive. However, it does not always avail itself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although it enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, its thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. It is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste its nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Moreover, its feelings sometimes blur its objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause it to make errors in judgment.
AR-AB has a sensitive and affectionate nature. She seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Her relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and she has a natural sense of tact and social grace.
Although your exterior appears unyielding and unapproachable, inside you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself any emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. It is difficult for your inner self to be detached from this past life, and you sometimes have trouble reconciling the image you have of yourself as an adult with the one you acquired back then. The idea you have of yourself as an individual is related to the image your parents projected onto you as a child. Nevertheless, the past is history, and you are now an adult. It should be easy for you to rid yourself of these phantoms through self-work. You have the ability to overcome your mistakes, as well as great endurance and will power to achieve your goals. Nevertheless, you must not repress your sensitivity in order to succeed.
AR-AB feels insecure due to the nagging feelings of insecurity, and so it tries to justify itself to others and gain their approval by showing that it is worthy of their affection. Nevertheless, its pessimism remains, and the severe taboos it unconsciously places on itself sometimes keep it from developing quickly.
AR-AB’s sensitivity and emotions are sometimes in conflict with her instincts. This inner discord makes her a fairly complicated relationship partner, and her behavior sometimes strikes others as mysterious or baffling. She is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of her life, and her relationships are most often motivated by her desires. Nevertheless, due to her unconscious inner battle, she does not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling her emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of her instincts, passion may overwhelm her and drag her into situations she cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.
AR-AB is a fairly shy, reserved, and discreet individual when it comes to matters of the heart. Even in intimate moments, AR-AB remains modest and does not always readily express her feelings. AR-AB is sensitive and giving, wishing to be of service to those she loves. AR-AB would do well to trust that she is deserving of being made as happy as she makes her partners.
AR-AB’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. AR-AB enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, AR-AB is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
AR-AB does not express much affection, but she does love deeply when she is loved in return. She is a contradictory person, trying to be independent but then needing someone to care for her. She will be hard to get close to emotionally, but when she does, she will be extremely happy.
AR-AB is content to stay at home while his partner dreams only of adventure and travel. This means that AR-AB’s love life may become somewhat strained. He may be attracted to people who are very extroverted and not really suited to him.
You are highly emotive and hypersensitive, which often makes you vulnerable emotionally. You seek an ideal partner, someone with whom you could maintain blissful, smooth relations, but you are sometimes met with disillusionment. Because your sensitivity and need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge your judgment and discernment, so you sometimes form extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners. When you meet someone, you fall under the enchantment of your dream of ideal love and cannot keep yourself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, you yield to another of your characteristic urges and lose yourself in the individual who is so dear to you, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find yourself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, your psyche is constructed in such a way as to make your sensitivity a function of the environment. Before you take on any major commitments, you should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically and see whether the person really reciprocates your intense love. Your tendency to believe in your illusions may mark you as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for you to find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you tend to be so disappointed by your great emotional investments. The delicate and subtle refinement of your imagination procures for you artistic refinement, and you love the arts, music, and literature. Because your sensitivity also makes it easy for you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with, you might also find it rewarding to commit yourself to social work.
AR-AB’s mental aptitudes make it good at comparing, evaluating, and weighing information. This intellectual modus operandi has enabled it to develop an innate sense of values, both artistic and ethical, as well as a remarkable ability to relate to other people. Its appreciative, conciliatory attitude makes it a skillful diplomat able to untangle conflict situations deftly and with ease. In other situations, AR-AB’s artistic spirit is sensitive to a wide variety of harmonies.
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