Ape Drums is fairly individualistic, preferring to work on their own projects independently. Although they sometimes mingle with groups for their competitive atmosphere, they will rarely join in them wholeheartedly, preferring to work on their own projects independently. A lack of confidence in themselves may sometimes create challenges in relationships. Their lack of self-esteem may also sometimes inhibit the full expression of their generosity and love.

Ape Drums felt guilty about the way he judged himself. He knew that he was a difficult person to deal with, and he often put himself through a lot of pain and suffering. However, he couldn’t help it. He had a paternal complex and, as a result, he felt a lot of responsibility for the people around him. He had trouble trusting other people, and he often felt like he had to take care of them. He also had a problem with self-assertiveness. He felt like he had to be the center of attention all the time, and he didn’t like it when people didn’t listen to him. He also felt like he was constantly punishing himself. He needed to learn to be more independent and to deal with his problems in a mature way.

Ape Drums is affectionate by nature, and love plays a decisive and central role in his life. He is a charmer who needs to love and be loved. Aware of his personal magnetism and the power it gives him, he will make subtle changes in himself in order to attract positive attention. He is sophisticated and pleased to savor a lifestyle he sees as a consummate art.

Ape Drums has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for it to gain access to this part of itself. It is confident in itself and life but may tend to be nonchalant. Sometimes it needs a little stimulation to get itself rolling and take some initiative. Its optimism and inner certainty do not always drive it to give its utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills it possesses are an advantage as well as a handicap. It makes use of its theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for it would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.

Ape Drums has a personality that is ruled by their mind. They need intellectual stimulation in order to feel fulfilled and always on the move in search of new contacts. Curious about all sorts of different subjects, they take care to inform themselves about many things. They enjoy conversation and communication and hope to be admired for their talent and wit. Due to their wide variety of interests, however, they can be something of a dilettante, and their thinking may sometimes lack discipline.

Ape Drums is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find him generous almost to a fault! He gives of himself and his resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when he is self-focused. He reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and is prone to misjudge. As a result, his everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, he senses a conflict between his social life and his family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill himself in both spheres at the same time. His attitude toward his private life may inhibit his ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on his private life. He should be careful not to project his personal problems onto his partner. If, instead, he analyzes the problem together, he could find opportunities to resolve it together.

Ape Drums is curious about your sensitivity. She’s never seen someone with such a delicate aura before, and she wants to know more. She’s also intrigued by your conservative nature and how it contrasts with your feelings about your past. She finds your faith in contracts appealing, as it gives her a sense of security.

Ape Drums feels that his independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, but he is sometimes frustrated by his need to rely on his family or friends. Moreover, he does not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as his own. Likewise, he is sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if he feared that it would doom him to eternal dependency. His ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship he had with his mother or a mother figure. Although he was dependent on them, they may have rejected him. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which his sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are prone to form. To ward off his feelings of dependency, he sometimes tends to become destructive. Based on denial, his reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.

Ape Drums has a romantic nature and is seeking a soulmate. The world of his emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule his sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.

Ape Drums was born with an emotional function that usually expresses itself cautiously and thoughtfully. distrustful of her emotional impulses and somewhat wary of her feelings, she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

Ape Drums is carefree, dreamy, and eccentric. He is eminently adaptable and easygoing, but hardly reliable, because he lacks a sense of logic. His appetite for change and novelty makes him somewhat unfitted for a confining committed life. Only his family, and possibly children, if he chooses to have them, will be able to ground him to any real degree.

Ape Drums loves sensitivity in a partner. He enjoys simple pleasures and satisfying experiences that last over time, withstanding legal sanctions and marriage. He delights in being with someone who takes great care of him, making sure he lives like a king. He hates complications and knots in relationships, preferring the simplicity of life.

Ape Drums has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of his main purposes in life. His personal charm and magnetism give him nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of his well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of his desires. Due to his impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, his approach to potential partners may sometimes lack delicacy.

Ape Drums may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive her to seek pleasure. Her need for romantic fulfillment may compel her to marry, because she also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that she had indeed achieved success. However, privately, she might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.

You are an ardent and amorous person, and your relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Your greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although you merge your ego entirely into the couple, you are likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If your partner charms and captivates you long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with you; otherwise, you are likely to yield to your need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for you. Midlife may be a turning point for you from this point of view. Your contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Your behavior enables you to remain aloof, to commit yourself only halfway without consciously admitting it to yourself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when you lose interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps you from forming stable relationships. Indeed, you are tormented by the struggle between your undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, your romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by your conviction that your partner has become an obstacle to your individual progress. Because you think of love as a restraint, you may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, you will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, you are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires you to initiate a change in your behavior.

Ape Drums ruled by their determination and vital needs, their intellectual abilities come to the forefront when their purpose is to communicate their ideal and plot their action or strategy. They can be both logical and astute and have gifts for theorizing but may sometimes lack perspective.