If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These weaknesses could be your pride and short temper, your insatiable need for praise, your need to dominate, or your struggle to tolerate criticism.

Aoki Lee Simmons often finds a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas, but sometimes fails to reconcile their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she neglects her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.