If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. If you’re excessively independent, you may be preventing yourself from taking full advantage of your skills and abilities. If you’re afraid of commitment, you may be missing out on great opportunities. If you’re eccentric, people may not take you seriously. If you’re unstable, you may not be able to stick to a plan. If you’re afraid of intimacy, you may miss out on opportunities to connect with others.