Andy Frisella became aware of his weaknesses and began to work on improving them. First, he became more independent, so that he would no longer rely on others to make decisions for him. He also became more confident, so that he would not be so uncertain about his abilities. He also began to soften his heart, so that he would not be so sentimental and would be more willing to experience happiness. Finally, he worked on improving his weaknesses by doing things which made him uncomfortable, so that he would become stronger and more capable.