Andrea Paris is aware of her weaknesses and wants to improve them. She begins by becoming aware of the things that are holding her back and preventing her from evolving.

Andrea Paris accepts the idea that every relationship follows a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she can define, through discussion and communication, what kind of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.