The first step to becoming better is becoming aware of the weaknesses that may be holding you back. These could be things such as your pride and temper, your need for praise and your struggle to tolerate criticism.

An21 sometimes senses a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

An21 is something of a social butterfly. Although it claims to be looking for a soulmate, it is tough for it to remain interested in any one partner for very long. It enjoys the mental stimulation of bubbly, worldly relationships with a variety of people. If it allows itself to become aware of the scope of its frustration, it might understand that its pleasure-seeking attitude is merely a flight from its true self.