If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your defensive attitudes, your fear of being dispossessed, your ambivalence, your radicalism, or your over-reliance on your instincts.

You sometimes struggle with the conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and are not always able to reconcile their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

He or she might set unrealistic goals for themselves and struggle with organization. These tendencies are particularly evident when it comes to their emotional relationships. In the beginning, they will idealize the potential partner, putting them on a pedestal, but then they will try to dodge their commitment and desperately plot to extricate themselves. In other life pursuits, they tend to rush into activities, of which they might only have a crude, confused concept. Life could step in to urge them to slow down and induce them to organize themselves with more patience and forethought.