Aly Jade feels insecure about herself and tries to compensate by insisting on her authority over others. With the people she is emotionally committed to, she doesn’t express her generosity and love fully. Her extreme independence sometimes hides an inability to abandon herself and a lack of assurance.
Aly Jade’s personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling her psyche. Because her sensitivity is in conflict with her determination, her attitude and performance may be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, she has the feeling she has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging her yearnings and fulfilling her ambitions. Her unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of her conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage her plans. In her relationships, the images she builds up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, also grates on her nerves. She finds it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.
Aly Jade is affectionate by nature and loves playing a decisive and central role in her life. She is a charming person who needs to love and be loved. Aware of her personal magnetism and the power it gives her, she will make subtle changes in herself to attract positive attention. She is sophisticated and pleased to savor a lifestyle she sees as a consummate art.
You may be subject to mood swings, going from phases of frenzy combined with a feeling of omnipotence and exaltation to phases of apathy and inertia. During your “highs,” your behavior is vigorous and dynamic, but it is also likely to be somewhat excessive. These periods tend to be interspersed with “lows,” phases of sluggishness and inhibition, which compensate for your immense need to assert yourself as an individual. How can you find a way out of this vicious cycle which uses up so much of your energy?
You would have to understand that the source of your attitudes and behavior is an unconscious desire for power. We suggest that you meditate upon power, skills, mastery, challenge, desire, and need, your brothers (or brother substitutes, such as friends, cousins, or classmates) – who are key figures – and your adversaries. This should enlighten you. Of course, once you have a clear awareness of your career ambitions and profound desires, you are sure to have plenty of energy to accomplish them.
Aly Jade usually keeps her emotions bottled up and avoids situations that might make her express them. This inhibition is related to a feeling of not having been loved enough. In many cases, this detriment to her love life comes at the expense of her work. She seeks social recognition through her career accomplishments.
Aly Jade has a sensitive personality. She may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. She is subject to cyclical energy flows and go from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in her behavior may be explained by emotional problems she may have experienced in infancy: her mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Because you were born with an innate sense of individuality, you quickly developed an original and independent identity. Your first taste of liberty may have led you to challenge the education and values you received from your family and class tradition, and you were able to forge a strong, original personality and philosophy. Your relationships are usually free of conflict, because you are able to reconcile your need for independence with your desire for affection. However, your partners should be open and lively people, able to keep pace with you in your rapid evolution. You have an inspired and extremely lively wit and a brisk interest in the future, technological progress, and new lifestyles. You would be especially successful in communications-related careers like journalism, film, TV, radio, and advertising. Although you are an individualist, you have a powerful desire to contribute to the evolution of society and better its development.
Aly Jade tries to express her affections in the most graceful and harmonious way possible. Indeed, she has an innate sense of harmony and strives for a love relationship characterized by balance and perfection. She tends to idealize both her partner and the institution of marriage. Any disillusionment she encounters in the pursuit of her ideal may be experienced as a frustration. She does not always ply her powers of seduction skillfully.
Aly Jade’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Aly Jade tries to remain emotionally detached, but she suffers bitterly when she is unloved. She is full of contradictions, and she tries to shelter her feelings by remaining aloof, although she can’t bear solitude. It will be hard for her to attain emotional happiness, and she will likely seek compensation in her career. She will be happier as she ages and may marry for a second time.
Aly Jade is a consummate charmer and flirt, and she is aware of a need to love and be loved. More than any other, she has an ability to echo another’s feelings: those of her soulmate, her confidant, her tender and charming companion. As a result, in love, she is looking for something permanent.
Aly Jade is a very complex individual, full of contradictions. Because of how often she feels vulnerable emotionally, she tries to control not only her own feelings and urges, but also those of her partners. She aspires to a profound spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning herself and yielding to the other terrifies her. This anguish often leads to extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Aly Jade is guarded and somewhat secretive, and she is especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy. Within the privacy of the couple, she will not express her feelings unless she is subject to some tension. Life is often peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety is one of the fundamental characteristics of Aly Jade’s emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, she is likely to be attracted to stormy and complicated relationships.
Aly Jade has a mental aptitude that makes her good at comparing, evaluating, and weighing information. This intellectual modus operandi has enabled her to develop an innate sense of values, both artistic and ethical, as well as a remarkable ability to relate to other people. Her appreciative, conciliatory attitude makes her a skillful diplomat able to untangle conflict situations deftly and with ease. In other situations, her artistic spirit is sensitive to a wide variety of harmonies.