Alonzo Bodden is fairly individualistic. Although he sometimes mingle with groups for their competitive atmosphere, he will rarely join in them wholeheartedly, preferring to work on his own projects independently. A lack of confidence in himself may sometimes create challenges in relationships. His lack of self-esteem may also sometimes inhibit the full expression of his generosity and love.
You have a paternal complex and find it difficult to assert yourself. You may have lacked a particular sense of security which can be provided by a paternal presence, as well as examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life. Because you were forced to protect yourself, you acquired a psychological defense mechanism which was useful as a child, but now it interferes with your growth. As a result, in some situations you are unable to assert yourself and remain an awkward or passive observer. You judge yourself harshly and sometimes punish yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
At the moment of your birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This signalled a time of harmony and balance between the masculine and feminine archetypes, which would be extremely beneficial to you. It was the source of understanding and balance between the two main psychological realms which make up your personality – the conscious and the unconscious. This positive complementarity has helped you to be comfortable with yourself, and to have a good relationship with your family and friends. You reflect a positive image of the marriage relationship to others, and your parents may have encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you are able to be at ease in your emotional relationships with others. There are no major conflicts projected onto the other person – that is, your significant other. This has been a source of happiness for you, and no one has regretted the relationship as a result.
Alonzo Bodden is very sociable and in tune with others. He has a need to be accepted and respected and is tactful and diplomatic. He is also fond of harmony and order in artistic terms and is sensitive and discerning. As a result, he is sometimes offended by the harsh demands of existence. He has a central role in his relationships and is usually very loyal to those he cares about.
Alonzo Bodden maintains strong ties with his past, and it often seems difficult for him to open his heart to new people. His love affairs might exist on the surface level, because his lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for him to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.
Because you were born with a strong sense of individuality, you quickly developed an original and independent identity. Your first taste of liberty may have led you to challenge the education and values you received from your family and class tradition, and you were able to forge a strong, original personality and philosophy. Your relationships are usually free of conflict, because you are able to reconcile your need for independence with your desire for affection. However, your partners should be open and lively people, able to keep pace with you in your rapid evolution. You have an inspired and extremely lively wit and a brisk interest in the future, technological progress, and new lifestyles. You would be especially successful in communications-related careers like journalism, film, TV, radio, and advertising. Although you are an individualist, you have a powerful desire to contribute to the evolution of society and better its development.
Alonzo Bodden has a romantic nature and is seeking a soulmate. The world of his emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule his sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.
Alonzo Bodden’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. He distrusts his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, trying to rid himself of all partiality and get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Alonzo Bodden is understanding and knows how to empathize and get whatever he wants without even asking. His artistic nature requires refined and elegant surroundings. Indeed, he enjoys the social whirl and is a talented host. In a relationship, he requires perfect harmony of feeling. Only a scrumptious person who is attentive, admirative, and perfectly understanding will be able to fulfill him.
Alonzo Bodden enjoys the simple pleasures and satisfactions that endure the tests of time and legal sanctions like marriage. He delights in being with someone who takes meticulous care of him and makes sure he lives like a royalty. He tends to abhor complications and knots in his emotional and romantic commitments.
Alonzo Bodden has a lively wit which gives him great agility and scope and a broad field of consciousness which enlivens his curiosity and makes him love variety and change. His mind is alert and his speech is full of verve, humor, and sometimes impudence. These abilities are great resources in communication, discussion, and debate. He is a storehouse of information and ideas of every kind and delights in manipulating words and concepts, discovering new things, and sharpening his memory for trivial facts. This mental agitation could sometimes make him scattered, however, or lacking in coherence and discipline.
Alonzo Bodden thinks carefully before expressing his opinion, but is usually more spontaneous in his actions. He is introverted and looks to conventional thought patterns for guidance, which often leads to his opinion being highly personal.
Alonzo Bodden is often oriented inward, trying to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. He sometimes feels misunderstood, and it seems difficult for him to express the complexity of his inner perceptions.
Alonzo Bodden has a very strong vision of the world, which sometimes clashes with the realities of social life. He often makes hasty decisions, which can lead to problems. He also tends to overestimate his abilities, often aiming for goals that are too ambitious. When Alonzo begins a project, he often tries to avoid any obstacles that might get in the way. In terms of personal relationships, Alonzo has a tendency to be dishonest at times; he may break promises or try to avoid taking responsibility. However, Alonzo should realize that this kind of behavior is not always sincere and can be hurtful to his partners. If Alonzo continues to act in this way, his partners may begin to doubt his sincerity.
You have a brilliant mind and an innate understanding of complex concepts, but your thought processes can be slow and ponderous. This may be the result of some failure or humiliation during your formative years. You are fairly inhibited and pessimistic, and tend to doubt in yourself and your intellectual skills despite your undeniable gifts as a thinker. You should become aware that your thought patterns and habits are the signs that you are on the brink of a really big breakthrough which will give you an understanding of the complexity of things and phenomena; however, it will take time and effort. Your mind is deep and accurate, and is attracted by the essence of things and their fundamental structure. As a result, you are particularly suited to the study of mathematics, architecture, engineering, or perhaps even politics. Your contribution to society will probably be most lasting and effective in the field of knowledge and expertise. Whatever career you choose, you should learn to work alone, because you tend to be uncomfortable in some surroundings. You will also have to learn to conquer your impatience, because you tend to waste time agonizing over deadlines and schedules. Additionally, a lack of self-confidence could cause you to be fairly conventional and respectful of time-honored ways. Instead, you should find the courage to question your convictions.
Alonzo Bodden has a great deal of intuition, but sometimes has problems organizing his thoughts and making an intellectual commitment. Concepts like boundary and structure are inimical to his mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. His thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. He tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, he can’t see the trees for the forest. Out of a fear of annoying people with his shrewdness or of fighting to assert himself, his imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.
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