If Alina Gilmanova wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution.
Her coolness and distance may be holding her back, preventing her from evolving. Her lack of consideration for others may be holding her back, preventing her from evolving. Her rigidity may be holding her back, preventing her from evolving. Her need for total control may be holding her back, preventing her from evolving. Her fear of her emotions may be holding her back, preventing her from evolving.