If Ali Gatie wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. His shallowness, lack of sincerity, indifference, frivolity, and fear of commitment are all potential hindrances to growth.

You sometimes have a conflict between wanting to be social and successful and needing a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and sometimes don’t always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels like you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.