If you want to improve your game, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be things like your pride and short temper, your insatiable need for praise, your need to dominate, or your struggle to tolerate criticism.

You sometimes feel a conflict between your desire to be successful in social and professional circles and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and often find it difficult to reconcile their demands on you. Sometimes it feels like you will never be able to find a balance, but no job promotion will truly satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only fooling yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true foundation and basis of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Alex Oxlade Chamberlain has fairly single-minded and obstinate desires. He displays a remarkable persistence in the pursuit of his commitments, despite any obstacles he may encounter. He is highly charged with sensuality and sexuality, and they have a great deal of influence on his behavior. His expression in this area is sometimes fraught with problems because he has a tendency to try too hard to control his lustful urges. However, an emotional crisis intervening at around age 40 may bring about a total redefinition of his relationship to his sexuality.