Alex Jolig has a fairly individualistic personality. Although he sometimes mingles with groups for their competitive atmosphere, he will rarely join in them wholeheartedly, preferring to work on his own projects independently. A lack of confidence in himself may sometimes create challenges in relationships. His lack of self-esteem may also sometimes inhibit the full expression of his generosity and love.
At the moment of your birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This was a sign of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes, which was extremely beneficial. It was the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms which may be said to compose the personality. You thus enjoyed a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to you, and it was likely that they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you were and are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images your ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.
Alex Jolig is an energetic and vigorous person who has an immense need to assert their individuality. Their attitudes and actions are actually motivated by an unconscious desire for power, which incites them to rush into action despite the frequent threat of risk and danger. Because they have very little control over their energy and impulses, they sometimes injure themselves bodily or start arguments without really having meant to do so. They have a short temper and would do well to learn to control their recklessness, which exposes them to a great deal of unnecessary conflict and adversity. They are also likely to start projects which are not really appropriate to them, only to be forced to quit soon after. Before they make any important decision, they must learn to stop and ask themselves if what they are about to do is really positive for them.
Alex Jolig prefers to adhere to a plan that is based on logical or moral reasons. Her behavior reflects this tendency. She is usually quite strict in carrying out models that she has developed on the basis of logical or moral reasons. She does not express her personal feelings or emotions easily, and she may sometimes come across as a rigid person. However, her conscientiousness and her ability to make things work effectively in a work environment make her thrive. She also tends to view social engagements and activities as a way of fulfilling her duty. Her natural inclination towards clarity, detail, and technique would make her a successful researcher or high-tech designer.
You are an ambitious, confident, and determined associate. Indeed, some people find you hard-working and persistent to a fault! You give your all, and never back down from a challenge. Paradoxically, there are times when you are over-bearing and domineering. You react instinctively, without taking the time to analyze a given situation, and are prone to making hasty decisions. As a result, your everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, you sense a conflict between your work life and your social life, and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill both spheres at the same time. Your attitude toward your private life may inhibit your ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on your private life. You should be careful not to project your personal problems onto your partner. If, instead, the two of you analyzed the problem, you might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.
Insecurities can make you crave order in your life and to prefer to do things according to a predetermined plan. Unfortunately, because your logic and vision tend to be somewhat shortsighted, it requires a great effort for you to adapt to a situation. You are rigid, might struggle to make friends easily, and are sometimes wary of relations with those you are most attracted to. You are a gifted worrywart.
Alex Jolig was born with an irrepressible imagination and a sensitivity that sometimes made it difficult to tell dreams from reality. Although her imagination can be an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it tends to be less helpful and positive in matters that concern earning a decent living out in the real world. In a relationship, Alex is extremely romantic and does not always see others the way they really are. She has elegant tastes and art and beauty are one of her chief pleasures in life.
Alex Jolig, sexuality is an important part of your life. Your relationships are most often determined by your instincts, but if you have a relationship that is exclusively satisfying sexually, you might feel frustration because you are driven by a kind of unconscious guilt to seek fulfillment for your heart and soul. You tend to be a rather excessive and tormented partner, who often re-evaluates the bonds that connect you to your partners.
Alex Jolig was taught to experience love in a certain way by his family, social class, and religion. He is determined to experiment with a new style. His idealistic aspirations may be a form of escapism. They encourage him to cast off conventional romantic practices and customs and embark on new adventures.
Alex Jolig was born with an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Alex Jolig, you seem serious and reserved, but this does not mean that you are not centered on your emotional life. You will be an exemplary and competent partner once you find the right person to commit to.
Alex Jolig found love easily in his youth, but now that he is an adult, he struggles to find someone who shares his interests. He is attracted to someone who admires him and is willing to live a free and eventful life.
Alex Jolig may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive her to seek pleasure. Her need for romantic fulfillment may compel her to marry, because she also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that she had indeed achieved success. However, privately, she might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, she might deny the commitments that her optimism and expansiveness made her rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting her romantic nature against the prerogatives of her career.
You are a passionate and ardent person, and your relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Your greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although you merge your ego entirely into the couple, you are likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If your partner charms and captivates you long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with you; otherwise, you are likely to yield to your need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for you. Midlife may be a turning point for you from this point of view. Your contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Your behavior enables you to remain aloof, to commit yourself only halfway without consciously admitting it to yourself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when you lose interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps you from forming stable relationships. Indeed, you are tormented by the struggle between your undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, your romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by your conviction that your partner has become an obstacle to your individual progress. Because you think of love as a restraint, you may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, you will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, you are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires you to initiate a change in your behavior.
From the outside, you seem to be detached and aloof, but on the inside you are an extremely complex individual, full of contradictions. Because you sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.
Alex Jolig is a flexible individual with progressive, inventive, and sometimes utopian ideas related to human or social problems. She always strives to be in the vanguard, creating a better world for the future.
Alex Jolig does not express her thoughts and ideas smoothly or easily. She tends to be subjective, seeking to know herself better through a process of introversion.
Alex Jolig’s intellectual faculties and wit are sometimes slowed down because they are turned outward. Because he tends to be oriented toward others, he rarely tries to communicate with them for the simple pleasure of doing so. Indeed, he sometimes feels misunderstood. Moreover, it seems difficult for him to express the complexity of his inner perceptions.
In social situations, your behavior is usually kind and benevolent. You exert a certain charm, know how to speak persuasively and convincingly, and are adept at smoothing the asperities of what you have to say when it is necessary. This aspect of your personality is a great advantage to you socially; however, in situations where you must either compete or deal with direct conflict and hostility, you may be somewhat at a loss for how to behave. You have an undeniable gift for oratory which could be applied to a communications-related occupation or to artistic expression (as a stage or screen actor). Writing and dance, two other arts which associate expression and movement, might also be fields in which you would excel.
You have an analytical mind and a deep understanding of the complex structures of things. You are able to see the essential nature of things and make deductions based on that knowledge. As a result, you are well-suited to the study of mathematics, architecture, engineering, or perhaps even politics. Your contribution to society will probably be most lasting and effective in the field of knowledge and expertise. However, you should be aware that your thought processes and habits can be slow and plodding. This is the result of some failure or humiliation during your formative years. You also tend to be inhibited and pessimistic, which can lead to doubts in yourself and your intellectual skills. However, with time and effort, you can overcome these obstacles and reach your full potential. Your mind is deep and accurate, and you are attracted to the essence of things. This makes you particularly suited to the study of mathematics, architecture, engineering, or perhaps even politics. However, you will have to learn to work alone and conquer your impatience. In addition, you should find the courage to question your convictions.
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