Alex Holtti seems to be passive and more or less resigned to his fate, including his insecurity. Actually, he is fairly introverted and withdrawn, trying to make sense out of his inner confusion and fathom his inner depths.
You have a difficult time establishing an identity because you lacked a parental figure who could provide you with guidance and support. Alternatively, if your father was present but did not behave in a way that helped define your personality, you were forced to create your own system in order to survive. This system was helpful as a child, but it has now become entrenched and interferes with your ability to grow and develop. As a result, in some situations you are unable to assert yourself and you tend to be shy or passive. You also have authoritarian tendencies that are mainly focused on yourself, and you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself harshly and sometimes punish yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you will need to build up a strong inner discipline and learn to deal with problems in a mature and detached way.
Alex Holtti has great strength of character. His courage and endurance enable him to accomplish even extremely arduous tasks. Although he sometimes behaves impulsively, he generally knows how to plan out an effective strategy, and, as a result, he reaches his goals without meeting any major obstacles. His forcefulness gives him certain leadership skills, which he may implement to creative and constructive ends.
Alex Holtti has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for him to gain access to this part of himself. He is confident in himself and life but may tend to be nonchalant. Sometimes he needs a little stimulation to get himself rolling and take some initiative. His optimism and inner certainty do not always drive him to give his utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills he possesses are an advantage as well as a handicap. He makes use of his theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for him would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.
Alex Holtti is sober and rather reserved and may even strike people as harsh and austere at times. Perhaps he was raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety, and, as a result, grew up very fast. He has acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency, tend to be rather uncompromising, and have a touchy sense of his personal dignity and worth. It is almost as though he was fighting an inner battle with his father or a father figure. The psychological models he received from his father or a father figure as a result of his interaction and his own interaction with authority may not have played a major role in shaping his relationships with the outer world and society. He may thus have been forced to compensate for this lack with individual determination. As a result, although he is skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, a lack of self-confidence and personal assurance sometimes makes him timid and hesitant. He sometimes feels as though he is only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. He tends to be far too critical of himself and rarely feels satisfied that he is living up to his ideal. These unnecessary guilt feelings may lead him to turn down the prominent career positions for which he is fully qualified. He is aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile and that time rewards those who know how to be patient and persistent, like he.
Alex Holtti is a sensitive and mild-mannered person. He is deeply human and attached to others. His mother had a strong influence on his psyche, which has shaped his sensitivity and habits. He still recalls vivid childhood memories, which are the basis for his thoughts and fantasies. However, he will thrive in a family setting and be calmed by the presence of a spouse and children. He is fond of security and routine and may find it difficult to adjust to new situations.
Alex Holtti has a sensitive personality. He may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. He is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in his behavior may be explained by emotional problems he may have experienced in infancy: his mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Alex Holtti is an optimistic and happy individual. He is cheerful and expansive, and always has a positive outlook. He is extremely generous, and gives of himself and his belongings without hesitation. This positive psychological outlook is the result of a happy childhood and a very beneficial maternal influence in infancy. He is quite likely to be a professional success; his vision of the world is perfectly adapted to prevailing opinion, and his urges and desires for personal expansion usually elicit a positive reaction from society. By old age, his good reputation and prominence may have earned him fame.
Alex Holtti hides his sensitivity behind a cool, aloof exterior. He is conservative, respectful of tradition and convention, and likes to follow the rules. Because he needs stability to alleviate his feelings of frustration and sometimes emotional dependency, he has great faith in contracts which seal relationships. His ties to his past are fairly strong. They are a source of reassurance and safety, because his parents likely gave a lot to him.
Alex Holtti has a sensitive and imaginative mind, which can make it difficult for him to distinguish dreams from reality. Although his imaginative nature provides him with a lot of inspiration for spiritual or creative growth, it can be less helpful and positive when it comes to his self-assertiveness and independence in relationships. In a relationship, Alex is extremely romantic and often sees others in a way that is not completely accurate.
Alex Holtti tries to express his affections in the most graceful and harmonious way possible. Indeed, he has an innate sense of harmony and strives for a love relationship characterized by balance and perfection. He tends to idealize both his partner and the institution of marriage. Any disillusionment he encounters in the pursuit of his ideal may be experienced as a frustration. He does not always ply his powers of seduction skillfully.
Alex Holtti’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function that is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, he tries to rid himself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Alex Holtti was inhibited as an adolescent and still unsure of how to express her feelings, the epitome of devotion and self-denial. The way she went about cutting the umbilical cord with her parents will play a vital role in her destiny and may be the cause of a late marriage. She tended to be withdrawn, but she energetically performed any chore for those she loved. An excellent helpmate, she will adapt and devote herself body and soul to the one she chooses. Family life should reveal a hidden side of her personality.
Alex Holtti’s view of love and his partner is distorted by the filter of his dreams and ideals. He goes from disillusionment to disappointment, becoming infatuated with unavailable people or getting involved with weak and unreliable characters. His youth will therefore be an emotionally unstable period, full of conflict, breakups, and abandonment. Maturity should help him to resolve the inner conflict that’s responsible for these disappointments. If he can see and accept his partner as they really are, he will be able to revive the love he needs to ensure his emotional wellbeing.
You are an ardent and amorous person, and your relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Your greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although you merge your ego entirely into the couple, you are likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If your partner charms and captivates you long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with you; otherwise, you are likely to yield to your need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for you. Midlife may be a turning point for you from this point of view. Your contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Your behavior enables you to remain aloof, to commit yourself only halfway without consciously admitting it to yourself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when you lose interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps you from forming stable relationships. Indeed, you are tormented by the struggle between your undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, your romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by your conviction that your partner has become an obstacle to your individual progress. Because you think of love as a restraint, you may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, you will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, you are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires you to initiate a change in your behavior.
You are a sensitive person, often overwhelmed by your feelings. Because of your vulnerability, you can be taken advantage of by people who have bad intentions. You should find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you are often disappointed by your great emotional investments. Your sensitivity also allows you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with.
Alex Holtti has a fairly skeptical temperament which relies on remarkable analytic and critical faculties. He is sensitive and curious, a keen observer of facts who collects detailed information he will later pore over and analyze. This type of logical, rational mind is extremely efficient for elaborating methods or sorting and classifying information. However, it sometimes lacks flexibility or broad-mindedness.
Alex Holtti tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
You have a knack for understanding complex concepts and explanations quickly. You are always looking for new ways to communicate and express yourself, whether through writing, speaking, or any other form of media. You are very passionate about what you believe, and your convictions often come through in your speech and writing. You are also very curious and open-minded, which makes you very creative. Regardless of the career you choose, you will need to be constantly learning and growing in order to be successful.
Alex Holtti has a great deal of intuition but sometimes has problems organizing his thought processes and making an intellectual commitment. The concepts of boundary and structure are inimical to his mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. His thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. He tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, he can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although his perceptions are lively and subtle, he may display a kind of absent-mindedness, out of a fear of annoying people with his shrewdness or of fighting to assert himself. His imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.
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