If you want to improve yourself, the first step is to become aware of your weaknesses. These could be things like your shallow nature, your lack of sincerity, your indifference, your frivolity, or your fear of commitment.

You sometimes sense a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Alex Guarnaschelli has significant intellectual potential which may merely need to be managed better and oriented toward the environment. In the first part of her life, this mental energy may have some negative effects and drive her into self-destructive behavior. She will have to make an effort to understand certain obsessions, which are unconscious and therefore all the more powerful and irresistible, if she wants to overcome the feelings of failure they cause. A complete psychological metamorphosis may occur when she makes up her mind to accept and understand the matters she has rejected and repressed.