Alan Fettis experiences his inner life as a process of growth and maturation, nurtured by his involvement with others and the positive and negative encounters this generates.
Alan Fettis leads a relatively extroverted life which is open to the outside world. His personal consciousness is forged by the heat of outer events. He is inclined to adopt the most objective viewpoint possible to be pragmatic and perhaps even materialistic.
Alan Fettis demonstrates great interest in the outside world, social affairs, and anything else that contributes to the growth and development of society as a whole. Clubs, organizations, and other forms of partnership attract his attention and motivate his behavior. He tries to protect himself from his subjectivity by adopting an impersonal approach to life. Devoted to the common cause, his destiny is no longer his alone. It is almost entirely controlled by the people whose cause he has espoused.
Alan Fettis has a tendency to identify with others. He forms friendships easily and naturally and enjoys participating in other people’s lives. Sociable, he enjoys being seen and appreciates popularity and recognition. Solitude bores him. His life and personal relations are in sync with his friendships and outer events. Most often, he shares the opinion of others.
Alan Fettis needs to assert his originality. He is individualistic and independent and lives life according to his own rules. People and things matter to him only insofar as they relate to him, and he ignores or disregards any annoyances he may encounter. His passions are lively and ardent, and he truly loves to give. He is endowed with great authenticity and can be quite generous, as long as he is aware that others admire him.
You work hard to understand other people’s feelings, but you find it difficult to empathize and connect with them. You see the emotional world as a foreign terrain, one that can be dangerous and overwhelming. Becoming familiar with it would likely bring some disadvantages over the advantages of not knowing it. As a result, you might come across as insensitive or cold to other people. It might be difficult for you to establish meaningful relationships, as you seek out those who are different from you. You may have a strong desire for emotional independence, but you might be resistant to seeing other people’s emotional needs. This can cause you to be reliant on others who are unaware of your dependency. Because it is seen as a threat, your dependency is often repressed. In fact, although you offer conscious resistance to anyone who tries to lure you out of your emotional bubble, you are always making timid, half-conscious forays into the emotional world. This is because your loneliness and fear are so intolerable.
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