If you truly want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your preference for illusion, your hypersensitivity, your emotionalism, your lack of self-confidence, or your guilt.

Ai Yazawa often feels a conflict between her desire to succeed in both the professional and social spheres and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas, but sometimes struggles to reconcile their demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance, but no job promotion will truly satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only fooling herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development, and all her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.