Agatha Evans becomes aware of her weaknesses and decides to improve them in order to become a better person.

Agatha Evans may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Agatha Evans sometimes finds it difficult to stabilize her life and steer a steady course. She is proud of her intellectual abilities and even tend to overestimate them in a search for recognition and admiration. Yet, at other times, she might seem to scoff at other people’s opinions. At times, she tends to be overwrought and high-strung. She might want to schedule frequent rest periods for herself.

Agatha Evans has a personality that is ruled by her mind. Her energy is used to conceive and create on the abstract plane. She is more of an idealist than a pragmatist and does not become passionately engaged in human relationships preferring a variety of casual contacts which demand little of her in return. As a result, it can be difficult for her to remain in close emotional rapport with another person without feeling hemmed in and stifled. With her peers, her charm makes her popular, and she attracts all sorts of helpful friendships. Due to the ease with which she moves in society and her eloquence, she has undeniable talents for communications and teaching.

To trust yourself better and gain self-assurance, the first thing you must do is learn to say no. Once you are capable of saying no to others, you can say yes to life. You must develop your awareness of all the things you love and feel positive about, as well as all the changes you hope to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support you, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of your personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when you were helpless may be obstacles to your evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent you from daring to confront challenges you would be altogether capable of assuming now!

One of the reasons you yield to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to you that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of your identity. However, the more often you reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware you become of your true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced your pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for you to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside you that claims you don’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of you could undermine your vitality and force you to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, you limit your power to bring about a positive change in yourself or your life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free yourself, the first step is to free yourself from the fears which prevent you from taking full advantage of life. You can succeed if you arrange a relaxed, positive environment for yourself, establish sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, finds a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which you can practice relaxation exercises.