Of a fairly introspective nature, Lilly Singh is attentive to her special inner qualities which enable her to perceive the very essence of the people she meets, the situations she encounters, and the objects she sees. She has the ability to understand through her intuition. This faculty is based upon an openness to the other, and thus a certain duality: a budding extroversion, and the predominance of the object over the subject (herself) in her consciousness. As a result, she has a strong sense of the group and would sacrifice her own ego rather than commit something that is a sin in her eyes, neglecting her social obligations or failing to fulfill her duties to the people she is close to. She can sometimes be perceived by others as unreliable or untrustworthy, due to a sort of opportunism or disloyalty.
However, these are superficial characteristics. The real reason for her behavior is psychological and resides in the fact that she is ready to do anything to maintain the harmony of the group (or simply satisfy the expectations of the other). However, she sometimes lacks self-assertion, and this makes her contradictory and unreliable when she faces certain superficial decisions.
Moreover, she has a chameleon-like ability to blend in with situations and prevailing moods. She is thus quite a success in social settings, and she thrives on friendships, partnerships, networks, and corporate liaisons. Her mind is amazingly flexible, arranging harmonious and productive encounters between people and ideas. All of her emotional health is invested in a desire to participate, to mingle, to exchange. Although she is consciously aware of an ardent desire to be sociable, unconsciously she blames herself for failing to achieve her ideal goal, which always seems to elude her. This is why she sometimes has phases of discouragement, followed by renewed zeal in her work efforts or group participation. Because she is always seeking the perfect group, the ideal form of cooperation, she sometimes despair of ever attaining it. She has a natural tendency to find common ground for people, to reconcile differing opinions and viewpoints, and she is partial to any arrangement which promotes cooperation or fellowship.
Because she is not aggressive by nature, she knows how to make peace; she is a skillful diplomat and go-between. As a corollary to her opening to society, she is closely related to her environment. The society in which she moves contributes in large part to the formation of her character and attitude. Through social contacts and friendships, she has elaborated a personal code of ethics which reconciles societal norms and the values her family, friends, and relations have passed on to her. It is important for her to find a way to make all these components harmonize, or she will feel a bit lost and bewildered. She needs recognition. She sometimes attaches great importance to other people’s opinions of her. She enjoys love and appreciation and is touched by praise as much as she is upset by criticism. She has a vital need for others and loathes solitude. Emotional functions are central to her psyche, and the encounter with a kindred spirit could be a turning point for her, a momentous event in her life. Since she is aware of this, and her tactfulness makes her quite successful with her love interests, she may be content to go from affair to affair without ever settling down, out of the fear of shutting out an even greater possibility for passionate love.
She loves to charm and be charmed and excels at the subtle art of amorous conquest, the pleasure of laughter and chat which hints at the promise of even greater pleasure in store. She is skilled at alluding to unnamed urges while seeming to engage in polite conversation.
Lilly Singh is dynamic. She needs to attract admiration and release her excess energy.
At the time of my birth, Lilly Singh’s rising sign was located in Aries, while the sun was passing through the sign of Libra, the Scales. A summary of the various clues mentioned above provide her personality profile. The following key words capture the essence of her character and indicate certain contradictions which may create tension:
Individualism – Sociability – Vitality and passion – Adaptation – Pugnacity – Emotion – Impatience – Tolerance – Impetuosity – Peace and serenity – Enterprise – Sense of harmony – Innovation – Worldly achievements.
She is a born esthete and reacts to beauty on an emotional level. She is drawn to outer attractions.
Her behavior reveals a deep-seated conflict between her need for freedom and experimentation and her striving for total harmony, tolerance, and understanding.
Her sense of rhythm, elegance, and beauty rein in her wildest impulses. Her opinions, elaborated according to accurate and logical premises, are balanced, although at times she may be troubled by her emotions and passions.
Born in the three and one-half days after the full moon rose, Lilly Singh is said to be a “full moon” lunar type. This “soli-lunar” configuration gives her an objective, rational, and lucid character. However, since the moon is opposite the sun at the time of the full moon, her objective tendencies are balanced by a more idealistic penchant. Because the forces pull her in two different ways – one toward dreams, the other toward reality – she may be aware of some inner contradictions which are causing practical and social difficulties for her.
At times, she is too demanding of herself or others, comparing them to an ideal, whereas at others, she is too nonchalant and indulgent about life. She vacillates between two poles. One is elitist; the other is more earthy and perhaps vulgar at times. The result is a multifaceted self.
Generally speaking, her monthly energy flow is strongest at the time of the full moon. She would be wise to schedule intensive work phases at that time, as well as ambitious and demanding projects.