Your sex life has your back in moments of stress…
Sex is your main tool of discovery, Scorpio. But when you’re feeling anxiety or stress, having cathartic sex is the best kind of sex you can have to cure yourself. Having an orgasm while—or after—you express some of your deepest feelings can take you on a journey to a “near-death” state of mind.
Except that, far from being scared, you will be more than alive when you come back. Like a bird reaching its peak, this is how you reach your highest level of intimacy, release negative emotions, and come out of our head in order to look at your current situation with a fresh and renewed point of view. It’s worth a try!
This will wake you up!
As one of the most intense signs, you need a constant energy release to feel at your best. But you get bored easily from that repetitive gym routine. Trying this 4-day program will make your fitness week fly by and make it more fun.
Monday – Burn the weekend calories by running to the park and do 30 minutes of ab work. Don’t forget to run back!
Tuesday – Two for the price (and time) of one, yogilates!
Thursday – It´s almost happy hour time! Dance fusion will put you in the right mood for the week´s end.
Saturday – Wrap up your week with a bike ride, either to run errands, or simply to enjoy the beautiful day.
Is your need for intimacy pressuring you to have sex?
One of Scorpio´s main needs is intimacy, the real kind of connection that allows you to really get to know someone. Very often, this gets confused for just sex and conversation, and it´s very possible that this hunger for closeness might drive you to experience hollow and forgettable encounters.
The truth is, as hard as it is for you to know it, most people don´t know, haven´t experienced, or are afraid of being this exposed. So how are you going to figure out if you should get involved or not? Trust your instincts, Scorpio! They are your best tool! If you get the feeling someone is incapable of this wholesome togetherness, might not be a red flag for others, but it is for you!
Fashion sense and shrewdness define a Scorpio…
Very few seem to notice that Scorpios not only dress to seduce, but actually have a refined sense of style. Combined with their business sharpness, Scorpios can make their way to the very top of the fashion industry. An impressive amount of Scorpios have made their way into this tough industry as editors, designers, and photographers.
In astrology master Susan Miller´s words, “Scorpios really understand what it takes to bring a creative idea to market, they have an affinity for good tailoring, refinement, elegance, and they would never show a beautiful item that cannot be bought.” Some of the Scorpio style setters in high fashion are Anna Wintour, Calvin Klein, Emilio Pucci, and Roberto Cavalli.
Your soul mate is hiding…
If you still haven´t found your better half, you’re probably pretty picky, and no one can blame you for that. Have you thought that maybe you´re looking in the wrong places? Here are some spots you need to hit according to your compatibility chart.
If you can already feel the gentleness and understanding side of your Pisces soul mate, vibe him or her at a museum, symphony, or any artistic event.
There’s a huge possibility your mate is a Cancer… just like at least a couple of your friends? This one might be harder to find, and there´s a big chance it´s going to be through family members or acquaintances.
Your Cap soul mate is always working, which means you will have to go find him or her either at a conference, or a happy hour networking event. Sound boring? Trust us, this serious lover will blow your mind.
What’s next in the love game, Scorpio?
All you´ve done is look for the person who is unafraid of being with someone as emotional and intense as you. Someone whose waters run as deep as yours, someone to trust, love, and confide in. You know that person is out there somewhere, you can feel it. But has this quest turned you into a serial dater? Ouch, that term just sounds bad, right?
The truth is, the line could get really thin when it comes to looking for the one, and you could end up just dating a ton of people in the process. So how do you know if you have crossed them? Fortunately, if you have learned to listen to your gut, you probably know how to avoid falling into the game of going on dates with anyone who asks you, or just because you want to see what happens.
But hey, no one is here to judge you, Scorpio, and maybe you are not looking for a serious commitment and you really are just focusing on what you do best: exuding that shimmery sensuality to everyone that can handle your powerful allure.
How to soften your approach in love, Scorpio…
You´re not messing around. When it comes to love, you have a consuming desire to become one with your partner. You want to see and feel how your hearts, bodies, and souls merge into one as you embark together on a journey into the unknown. But, is it mutual? This might sound like the ultimate union to you, but for some other folks might seem intense. Test the waters first, especially if you´re in a new relationship. If you notice the other person still on guard, let them figure out the intensity of your emotions and maybe they will want to be part of that journey. If they don´t, a more adequate traveler will find you when the right time comes.
You too attract more bees with honey!
Let´s be honest Scorpio, if you´re in a committed relationship, you might be the one “wearing the pants in the relationship.” You like having control of your surroundings, and you probably have picked a mate who either enjoys being under your thumb, or doesn’t really care at all. When you feel like you´re losing some of this control, you might turn to your dark bag of tricks and bluntly manipulate your mate into doing whatever it is that you want.
But, is this the relationship you really want to have? When it comes to love, real love, your softer side will always win you over. In that cutely magnetic way of yours, show your sweetie the way you feel. As a Scorpio, you are way more powerful—and attractive—when you´re out of the shadows.
Scorpio´s seductive strategy…
As a Scorpio, you are very passionate in every one of your relationships. But before you let yourself feel that profound and decide to jump into a relationship, you must test the waters.
You might also be running hot and cold toward your love interest and probably making them go through some serious tests, mainly because you must protect yourself and figure out if the other person is worth your time.
Well, sorry to break it to you Scorpio, but these are all called “mind games”, and your sign has created a reputation for playing them a lot in the game of love. But don´t they say that in love and war everything goes?
With you, foreplay starts way before even getting to the bedroom, and all this so called “mind manipulation” is what makes you so irresistible. So how is it that you´re going to stop? You won´t, not until you meet someone strong enough to handle your intensity and smart enough to match your wits!
Opening the door to Scorpio´s deepest sexuality…
As the sign that rules reproductive organs, you exude pure sensuality that people can smell a mile away. But often this sensuality can be confused for just sex.
The truth is, Scorpio´s simmering sexuality goes beyond that. When you first meet someone, they might be so attracted to you that they just want to jump into bed with you right away. But that could be a total turn off for you, right?
With sexy Scorpio, foreplay starts way before the bedroom; it involves establishing a real connection by exchanging long and penetrating gazes, teasing each other verbally, and resolving each other´s mind mysteries.
The door to unleashing Scorpio´s awe-inspiring sexuality is their mind! What should happen next is another one of your sign´s misconceptions. Instead of going for a rough-quick approach, fully engage in a super subtle ecstasy.
Your sexuality, Scorpio, is not only a way to express yourself and release pent-up emotions, it is your pathway to uncover the secrets of human nature.