How to spot a Cancer…
Do you care about sign love compatibility, Scorpio? Think back… are some of your exes Cancer? If the response is yes, keep trying them out, it might be worth it. If your response is negative, you need to get busy, Scorpio! You two are like a match made in heaven! This is how you spot a Cancer:
They are family people.
They wear their hearts on their sleeve and—like you—have volatile emotions.
He or she is an artist, or at least artsy.
They spend a lot of time at home, like to have people over, and know how to entertain them.
A nurturer by nature, they love taking care of others or things in general.
Your sex life has your back in moments of stress…
Sex is your main tool of discovery, Scorpio. But when you’re feeling anxiety or stress, having cathartic sex is the best kind of sex you can have to cure yourself. Having an orgasm while—or after—you express some of your deepest feelings can take you on a journey to a “near-death” state of mind.
Except that, far from being scared, you will be more than alive when you come back. Like a bird reaching its peak, this is how you reach your highest level of intimacy, release negative emotions, and come out of our head in order to look at your current situation with a fresh and renewed point of view. It’s worth a try!
Is your need for intimacy pressuring you to have sex?
One of Scorpio´s main needs is intimacy, the real kind of connection that allows you to really get to know someone. Very often, this gets confused for just sex and conversation, and it´s very possible that this hunger for closeness might drive you to experience hollow and forgettable encounters.
The truth is, as hard as it is for you to know it, most people don´t know, haven´t experienced, or are afraid of being this exposed. So how are you going to figure out if you should get involved or not? Trust your instincts, Scorpio! They are your best tool! If you get the feeling someone is incapable of this wholesome togetherness, might not be a red flag for others, but it is for you!
Your soul mate is hiding…
If you still haven´t found your better half, you’re probably pretty picky, and no one can blame you for that. Have you thought that maybe you´re looking in the wrong places? Here are some spots you need to hit according to your compatibility chart.
If you can already feel the gentleness and understanding side of your Pisces soul mate, vibe him or her at a museum, symphony, or any artistic event.
There’s a huge possibility your mate is a Cancer… just like at least a couple of your friends? This one might be harder to find, and there´s a big chance it´s going to be through family members or acquaintances.
Your Cap soul mate is always working, which means you will have to go find him or her either at a conference, or a happy hour networking event. Sound boring? Trust us, this serious lover will blow your mind.
What’s next in the love game, Scorpio?
All you´ve done is look for the person who is unafraid of being with someone as emotional and intense as you. Someone whose waters run as deep as yours, someone to trust, love, and confide in. You know that person is out there somewhere, you can feel it. But has this quest turned you into a serial dater? Ouch, that term just sounds bad, right?
The truth is, the line could get really thin when it comes to looking for the one, and you could end up just dating a ton of people in the process. So how do you know if you have crossed them? Fortunately, if you have learned to listen to your gut, you probably know how to avoid falling into the game of going on dates with anyone who asks you, or just because you want to see what happens.
But hey, no one is here to judge you, Scorpio, and maybe you are not looking for a serious commitment and you really are just focusing on what you do best: exuding that shimmery sensuality to everyone that can handle your powerful allure.
How to soften your approach in love, Scorpio…
You´re not messing around. When it comes to love, you have a consuming desire to become one with your partner. You want to see and feel how your hearts, bodies, and souls merge into one as you embark together on a journey into the unknown. But, is it mutual? This might sound like the ultimate union to you, but for some other folks might seem intense. Test the waters first, especially if you´re in a new relationship. If you notice the other person still on guard, let them figure out the intensity of your emotions and maybe they will want to be part of that journey. If they don´t, a more adequate traveler will find you when the right time comes.
Let’s talk about emotion…
Your symbol, the Centaur, is half man and half horse, and like him, there is a duality about you. For the most part, you’re viewed as the zodiac’s buoyantly irrepressible cheerleader, but you’re more sensitive than you seem at first glance. Thoughtlessness hurts your feelings, but you rarely talk about your feelings, so it’s hard for others to know. You get melancholy at times. Boredom makes you irritable, and when that happens you may feel like no one cares about you. That’s far from true! Fortunately, these dark moments pass quickly because you know tomorrow will be better!
Variety is the spice of Sagittarius´s sex life…
You yearn to live life to the fullest and experience all that the world has to offer. New and different? You’re there! Exotic locales? Bring ’em on! Boredom is a four-letter word, especially when it comes to sex. Impulsive, erotic, and romantic, you’re great in the sack! You’re a willing partner who’ll try anything once (or three times, if it’s really fun). How else will you know what you like? Just don’t drop a fetish bomb on a more traditional partner! Few can match your enthusiasm, adventure, and pure enjoyment. After all, every encounter is a learning experience, right?
You’re the sign that can have it all it all, Sagittarius!
You don’t have to sacrifice love for freedom if love is truly what you crave. A relationship doesn’t have to equal restriction. There’s a lot to be said for focusing your attention on one relationship rather than seeing how many you can shoehorn into a lifetime. Your true partner will understand your quest to explore, travel, and experience life. And when said partner isn’t with you, he or she will be waiting patiently for your return. Yes, wild horses running free are beautiful, but that doesn’t mean that all domesticated horses are unhappy!
Love a challenge? Try keeping a Sagittarius!
How does Sagittarius love thee? Let us count the ways. Sag doesn’t ask for much, just a few dozen basic requirements, but if you have these ten qualities, you could be in for the love adventure of a lifetime!
Respectful (extremely important)
Spontaneous (keep a bag packed for those spur-of-the-moment trips)
Open-minded and adventurous
Honest (you know Sag will be)
Patient and easygoing (very important)
Independent (have a life outside the relationship, because Sag certainly will)
Smart
Interesting (and interested)
Positive and trusting
Romantic and passionate