This Aries strength could be a love weakness…
Everyone knows that you’re passionate, and there’s nothing wrong with that. You zero in on what (or who) you want and go after it or him or her with singleness of purpose. A battering ram was an ancient siege weapon, originally a stout log, used to bash through walls. Sound familiar?
Forget immovable object, you’re like an irresistible force meeting marshmallow fluff! No one can withstand the full Aries onslaught. But romance isn’t a blunt instrument to be wielded against a foe. Ease up and enjoy the wooing process. Sweep—don’t knock—your paramour off their feet!
One thing to know about dating a Ram…
Aries likes to lead, not follow. Male or female, they want to extend the invitation, choose the venue, set the time, and make the reservation. All their date has to do is be ready! Oh, and come prepared with interesting, if not intellectual, things to talk about, enthusiasm, and lots of questions Aries will be happy to answer. You need plenty of energy because this date could go on all night! And leave the romantic fantasies of “happily ever after” at home, for now at least. The relationship may not last long, but while it does, it’ll burn like a house afire!
Aries won’t stand for this in relationships…
If you’re shy and retiring, you don’t have to worry about tiptoeing around Aries, because you probably won’t be going out with one in the first place. However, if you’re determined and intense, you may meet your match, because that’s just the kind of person that attracts the Ram.
But if you try to dictate terms, give orders, or tell Aries what to do, you could be shown the door. Have a better idea? Find a way to make it seem like it was all theirs (and then praise them to the skies)!
The thing you need in bed with an Aries…
Sometimes Aries impulsiveness can take a date from first base to home plate without so much as a glance at the rest of the field. Rev up arousal by doing something out of character. Slow down and make out. Focus on foreplay. Savor one another. Explore and experiment with new ways to touch and please your partner. The change of pace from whirlwind to slow burn will make the sparks fly. Amp up the pleasure with patience and you won’t burn yourselves out!
Aries wants this in bed—but may never admit it!
Want to capture the heart of the Aries man? Take the lead. No matter what’s your pleasure, surprise him. Some men are intimidated or put off by strong, confident women, but not Aries! Give him a taste of his own powerful, take-control attitude and let him know what you’re going to do to him, how, and where. Mix it up—canoodle in the carport, get kinky in the kitchen, play behind the potted fern. Surprise him by acting out one of his sexual fantasies when he least expects it and he’ll be yours (almost) forever!
Tips for single Aries longing for love…
You have no problem making the first move. The problem is finding the right person to make that move on. You want to meet someone whose brains, physicality, and interests match yours. Try auto shows (you know you love to drive fast), bookstores (yes, they still exist), lively bars and nightclubs, the nearest hiking trail on a busy day, the gym, and sporting events. If you have a hobby, take (or teach) a how-to class, or meet fellow enthusiasts stocking up on tools and materials at flea markets or craft shops.
Signs an Aries is losing interest fast…
It’s usually hard to get a word in edgewise with talkative Aries or keep up with one when they’re busy. They do first, and rest later (if ever). However, if your Aries partner is suddenly spending all day vegging on the couch or playing video games, Houston, we have a problem! Aries isn’t a good liar, so you’ll either know what the problem is, or they’ll just walk away with nasty a backward glance. It’s harsh, yes, but it was fun while it lasted, wasn’t it?
Aries are natural charmers, but do they lead others on?
Aries doesn’t play games, not in love anyway. Once smitten, there will be no beating around the bush or playing hard to get. If they don’t come out and say exactly how they feel, they’ll pursue you in a whirlwind of romance. Hold on to your hat!
With Aries you could mistake restlessness for boredom, but you’d be oh so wrong! Far from preferring to be somewhere else (or with someone else), with Aries it’s a sign they want to pick up the pace! If the heat isn’t there, you’ll know that, too. If it is, you can’t easily talk Aries into anything, including love.
Is an Aries happier single or in a relationship?
Single or coupled? Aries could go either way. Unlike some other signs, you’re perfectly happy alone. But once you’re in a committed relationship, you’re as generous, affectionate, and supportive as any other sign.
Things could cool if a relationship grows too routine (you know how Aries loves adventure). Yes, it’s true—day-to-day life is way less exciting than the chase. And a disengaged Aries is a self-involved Aries who could forget to include a partner at all. Anyone in a relationship with Aries needs to be strong, supportive, and ready for the ride of a lifetime!
Turning these struggles into strengths…
For anyone in a relationship with a Virgo, they already know that their partner is systematic and methodical. One who suddenly seems scatterbrained and ricochets from one thing to another like a bumblebee in a flower garden is not a contented companion. Similarly, one who succumbs to frequent headaches, stomachaches, or phantom ailments could be losing interest and withdrawing. You might not reach the soul-baring stage with a Virgo, but a partner who can talk about the situation logically might be able to get to the bottom of the issue.