Charm a free-spirited Sagittarius…
It’s a safe bet you won’t be asking anyone to a symphony gala or ritzy restaurant! You love the outdoors, and while you might take a date horseback riding, sailing, or hiking, you’re just as likely to watch a game in a sports bar while noshing on sweet potato fries and artisanal beer. A music festival or outdoor arts and crafts fair with Korean fusion, Indian bento boxes, all things bacon, and other street food will give you lots to talk about as you eat. For a more intimate chat, try a neighborhood bar featuring unusual concoctions of tarragon, rosemary blossoms, or fennel bitters.
A common misperception about Caps in bed…
A Capricorn’s personality profile doesn’t exactly scream sex appeal, but they are far from being bad in bed. In fact, they can be quite skillful, making sure their lover is satisfied—no matter how long it takes. But they aren’t into one-night-stands and won’t really let out their sensual side until trust and at least the potential for serious commitment are established. Once Capricorns feel secure in a relationship, their sexual insecurities vanish, and they might even teach you a few fun, new techniques!
Actions speak much louder than words
You’re a true go-getter, but are you missing romantic opportunities? Probably. Why? Because when a Capricorn is interested in someone, they are less likely to come out and say how they feel than other signs because of your fear of rejection.
You might do all the little things to show you like someone, but it might take a mind-reader to know why you do what you do. And others are afraid of hurt and embarrassment too, so unless you’re explicitly giving them red roses, giving very flirty looks, touching their hand, going in for a kiss, etc., your crush or partner may assume you’re just being polite.
So, speak up more. Make sure your loved ones know you love them. That means backing up your actions with words—and a little more romance wouldn’t hurt. It’s fun to give and receive happy reactions.
The thing that makes Capricorns become sexual beasts…
If a Capricorn totally trusts their lover, all sorts of hidden character traits will emerge. One awesome one is their kinky, ultra-romantic side! They are up for not just trying anything sex-related, but they will also want to be the best lover ever, no matter how much practice that takes.
Goats are, however, inhibited about physical intimacy until they feel really comfortable and secure with a partner. They are not good at casual affairs. They need to be themselves and be accepted and adored as is. If not, they will keep a wall up and you might never be able to penetrate it.
Your self-protection may be too extreme…
Wondering why you seem doomed to only date losers or lose the ones you do like suddenly and unexpectedly? The cause may not be as mysterious or fated as you think.
Capricorns are known for guarding their emotions. And as open and loving as you think you’re being, make sure you both say and do things that let your love interest know how you feel. It’s okay to be a bit vulnerable—in fact, it’s necessary if you want to meet and hold on to a keeper!
What arouses a Cappie…
While Capricorns may not be the most openly romantic sign, they have a major sweet spot under that rigid exterior… but they need to feel appreciated, especially when it comes to any intimate encounters.
Capricorns also need to believe in themselves, so with a little encouragement you can really let your confidence shine. You can be a very talented lover and best friend to your partner.
Casual flings are not your thing. You won’t truly open up and show your sensual side unless you feel like you and your mate are a solid couple with long-lasting potential.
The only thing lonely singles may want to consider is loosening up a bit—someone may not seem like your soul mate at first, but they can open you up to new possibilities and maybe the relationship will stand the test of time… or at least be fun!
The critical factor in winning a Capricorn’s heart…
It’s no secret that Sea Goats need to feel secure in their relationships and that loyalty is crucial. But the number one love need for Capricorns is feeling respected. If you feel you aren’t being valued, appreciated, and adored as much as you should be, forget it!
Some advice for anyone dating a Capricorn: if you want the relationship to be happy and possibly permanent, never use disrespectful language, statements, or judgments to their face. There’s a way of sugar-coating by pointing out positives and using a little psychology to let a Capricorn figure out their own shortcomings. Just don’t be the one to point them out!
Things Caps can’t tolerate…
First and foremost, don’t be late for your date! Capricorns value punctuality and organization, so if you don’t have that together, you probably will make a bad first impression.
Second, be respectful and don’t be disagreeable. You can have your own opinions and Goats love to be challenged, but only when it’s stimulating, not belittling them.
Third, don’t be arrogant. It’s great to show self-confidence, be decisive, and have a sharp wit, but if you come across as holier-than-thou or just plain rude—expecting to be given special treatment, bragging about your life, ordering the fanciest menu items at dinner and then not at least chipping in–your Goat will be gone in a flash!
Be careful not to appear this way to others…
Does it get lonely up there on that hill, Aquarius, as king or queen of all you survey? That’s the impression you can give if you aren’t careful! At worst, you seem to act like royalty, only taking your own needs into account and expecting others to meet them. But that’s just because you’re wary of emotions. You much prefer to deal with life rationally!
However, make no mistake—Aquarius is tender and romantic, with an abundance of love to give to the right person. And that person isn’t looking for a quick romp in the hay! Will that person see the warm, vibrant side of Aquarius? Only time will tell!
Ways you could be sabotaging Aquarius’ love life…
If you truly want to be in a long-term relationship, focus that famed intellect on yourself. Do any of these sound familiar?
Too acid-tongued. That sharp wit can cut if you aren’t careful.
Too cerebral. Don’t overthink things.
Too contrary.Would you rather throw a hissy fit than conform?
Too emotionally distant. Display some of that love you feel.
Too independent. “Freedom” can look like rejection to a partner.
Too objective. Sometimes you need to take a side and voice an opinion!
Too stubborn. Everyone has to give up a cherished idea occasionally.
Too unpredictable. A partner likes some continuity.