This is who you’ve been looking for…
As the sign of sexuality, sex is not only your religion, but also the way you explore life, people, and feelings. Of course, not everyone has what it takes to please you, so find out which signs they are before you get too involved!
When it comes to sex, fellow water signs—Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces—will make you tick because you are all dominated by sensuality. Other signs that might bring you pure ecstasy are Gemini, Virgo, and Capricorn. On a dark note, if that hottie you’ve been fantasizing about is Aries, Leo, or Aquarius, you´re probably better off staying away!
Dating an Archer? Better stay away from this…
Rules for courting Sag read like a long list of “don’ts” posted at the beach. Follow these “simple” guidelines and you’re sure to have a great time with your Sagittarius partner!
Don’t be needy.
Don’t come on too strong.
Don’t fence Sag in.
Don’t badger Sag for his or her thoughts.
Don’t tell Sag what to do.
Don’t ask, “do I look fat/ugly/tired/okay in this?” (Unless you want the brutal truth!)
Don’t be obvious (keep Sag guessing).
Don’t be argumentative (but be direct).
Don’t steer (overtly).
Don’t be boring.
Don’t be a sourpuss.
Don’t be formal or regimented.
Don´t take it personally, it´s only your Sag being real…
Sagittarius has firm ideas about everything—work, politics, and romance. You can’t pin one down or force one to love you. They know what they want. They also know if they’re in love. There’s no mystery to figuring out where you stand—Sag will tell you! Just like he’ll say your butt looks big in those pants, or she’ll say the joke you told at the party was stupid. This sign can’t lie, and Sag certainly isn’t going to start practicing with those three little words. Conversely, if the thrill is gone, your Sag will be, too. No lame excuse, no apology.
Mixed signals might be keeping you from getting serious…
One of your needs as a Scorpio is to be in a nurturing, but passionate and committed, relationship. If you have been struggling to even pass stage one in your relationships, giving your prospect the wrong idea might be your problem. You’re a sign that finds it difficult to open up at first, and if you´ve been hurt in previous relationships, you might be making very difficult for someone to form a genuine bond—even though that´s actually what you really and truly want. If someone feels right, showing your vulnerable side might be scary, but it definitely can be very rewarding.
Staying true to your nature in a long-term relationship…
Scorpios are thought to be made to be in a relationship, not only because they get lonely easily and have sexual needs, but because they are tremendously loyal and generally function better in the company of a partner. But when you take intimacy so seriously and become one with your loved one, it´s hard to stay true to your nature.
You can still be you and maintain a great love affair just the way you like it. Having your own time alone, your own intellectual interests, your own friends, your own creative time, and having the freedom to do whatever you want are some of the most important aspects of staying true to your nature. One thing is for sure Scorpio, if you have found the one who lets you be this way, you have found the one!
Pay attention to this…
So, you were going out with a Scorpio and things didn’t work out? Everything will be okay as long as you do things right. Getting closure is an important matter for them but you have to think it through, otherwise they might hate you forever, or even look for revenge if you really end up breaking their heart.
Chances are they saw it coming, so one of the most important things is to be completely honest (this includes not cheating on them). These folks are super intuitive and will spot a lie a mile away. Show emotion, promise loyalty as friends if you feel like you can, don´t make them look bad publicly, and have one last—good and steamy—sex session.
Scorpio’s withdrawal may be their downfall…
You met someone. You two are super compatible, the sex is amazing, and you like everything about them. But just when you were starting to think you could fully engage with this person—boom—something happens.
You are too proud to admit when something bothers you because it makes you feel weak, controlled, and wounded. And all of the sudden, in the blink of an eye, you turn ice cold. You withdraw not only from your new love interest, but from your own feelings. Your Scorpion survival instincts turn on to protect you.
In the meantime, they are asking themselves, “what happened?” Rise above this situation. Clearing the air and showing how strongly you really feel is not a sign of weakness. Learn a positive way to verbalize your emotions and know that nobody can hurt you when you are who you truly are!
Every Sagittarius needs this in their life…
Yes, everyone knows independent Sag needs wide-open spaces, the freedom to roam, the wind in your hair. “Don’t fence me in” is the theme song to your personal sitcom! But you still want somebody to love, right? Many people think a relationship can’t withstand long separations, but guess what? Researchers have discovered that couples in long-distance relationships with more miles between them said they were more satisfied and had more intimacy and better communication than pairs who lived closer together. It could be because you work harder to make up for the distance. Any way you look at it, it appears you can have it all!
Single or not, this is who you are Sagittarius!
It’s impossible for Sag to fade into the wallpaper. You command attention the moment you walk in a room. Your wit amuses and your charm attracts, so why are you still single? For some, it’s because you like it that way! Sag is called the “bachelor” sign for a reason. You love the chase if not so much the capture. But your friendly ways draw many to you. They want to hear what you have to say and partake in your adventures. When you do find your match, you’ll give your whole heart and be loyal for life!
Sagittarius relationship red flags…
Fun, adventure, and stimulating talks are a given for you. Absent those, there’s no point in spending one more minute with a date! Everyone knows that limitations and rudeness are deal breakers. What people may not realize is that you want to be taken seriously. You have a vast font of knowledge—you’ve spent a lifetime accumulating it, after all! More importantly, you’re happiest when sharing it. But you hate when someone makes fun of your words, ignores your advice (especially when they asked for it in the first place), or argues with your point. Those are nonstarters. Oh, and failing to laugh at your jokes!