Will you ever be able to tell if it’s real?
You won’t see Virgos proclaiming their love from the rooftops or proposing via skywriter! Their methods are subtler, but no less ardent for that. They’re obsessed with logic and clarity (two things often missing in the realm of love), but if you’re having a heart-to-heart talk with one, there’s a real connection. The nitpicking won’t stop, but that’s only because he or she really likes you! Why bother criticizing someone you’re never going to see again? The real clue that things are going well is when this anxious worrier lets down their defenses and completely relaxes. Set the date!
This is your biggest obstacle to finding true love…
You’re searching for love, but in your balanced, fair-minded Libra way, you could stymie your best efforts! When you can see both the good and the bad attributes in every potential partner, how do you choose?
Trust your animal instincts. A female albatross doesn’t waste her time on the wrong guy. That goose isn’t sitting there pondering that gander’s good and bad points. It’s doubtful you’ll find a wild critter anywhere who believes “opposites attract”! Many species besides humans engage in lengthy courtship rituals. The male has to prove to the female that he’s serious! If the guy isn’t that into you, accept it and move on. All the second-guessing in the world won’t make it so!
The mistake single Libras make most in their quest for love…
Relationships are very important to Libra. If you’re still searching for that perfectly balanced partnership, focus that sharp mind on yourself to suss out the answer. If any of these sound familiar, you may have some work to do!
Are you too busy trying to please everyone that you don’t have time for your nearest and dearest?
Are you too comfortable with ambiguity and therefore unable to commit?
Are you too concerned with being everyone’s friend that you neglect your partner?
Are you too worried about looks and not enough with what’s inside?
Are you too eager to maintain harmony so much so that you gloss over disagreements and tension?
The surprising place you should look for your soul mate…
Are you still searching for Mr. or Ms. Right? Libra of course is an air sign, so look skyward. You may not be into extreme sports, but there is nothing dangerous about being a spectator at places where hang-gliders, skydivers, or para-sailors show off their skills. Visit the summertime air show at a local military base or state fair. If you’re feeling adventurous, wafting silently over the landscape in a hot-air balloon at dawn can provide a whole new perspective on life—and on love!
Libras need this more than anything to be happily in love…
Harmony may be in short supply these days, but you more than anyone need peace in your private life. You want a partner who is accommodating, one who makes as few waves as possible. Because your focus is on strengthening your relationship, you cherish all of your partner’s conciliatory attempts as you forgive any missteps or shortcomings.
You would never think of forcing your opinion on a mate, but if you suddenly find yourself growing argumentative, resentful, and uncompromising, it could be a sign that this partnership isn’t the right one for you.
This might be getting in your way to finding love…
You live your life in a balanced way. You are fair to all, and your manner is gracious, warm, and agreeable. You’re so accommodating that you may stifle your true feelings so as not to hurt someone else’s.
So how is a potential partner supposed to know if you’re just being polite or you really like him or her? Welcome your friend into your world—make him or her part of it. You like to be the center of attention but relinquish a bit of the spotlight and invite your friend on a romantic ride, Libra style!
Breakup? Let go for good before you break down…
It’s very hard for you to actually tell someone when a relationship is finished. You’re so composed that your lover may not notice anything is wrong at all! You’re just as nice as ever and you seem to treat him or her in the same way, although if listening closely, your partner may detect a slight edge in your voice. Somehow you can continue to canoodle with one partner while testing the waters with someone else! Be careful. Such deception can only cause heartache—and you aren’t immune!
Disappointed by love? This is what you’re doing wrong…
Most of the time you seem so confident to others that it can come as a shock to find out that you fear rejection, but it’s true. When you’re serious about someone, you don’t want to be two separate individuals in a relationship. You want to meld together as a team.
Show your true intentions by suggesting that you live together, carpool to work, and/or share finances. Your love will know you mean business! With a loving comrade to help, no longer will you have to dilly-dally alone over every decision. What a relief!
This is who you’ve been looking for…
As the sign of sexuality, sex is not only your religion, but also the way you explore life, people, and feelings. Of course, not everyone has what it takes to please you, so find out which signs they are before you get too involved!
When it comes to sex, fellow water signs—Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces—will make you tick because you are all dominated by sensuality. Other signs that might bring you pure ecstasy are Gemini, Virgo, and Capricorn. On a dark note, if that hottie you’ve been fantasizing about is Aries, Leo, or Aquarius, you´re probably better off staying away!
This is the reason why you’re still alone…
Ok Scorpio, since you are one of the hottest signs out there, there are only a few possible reasons why you haven´t found your perfect match. Here’s a list of every single one of these possibilities to give you a way to fix it quick!
If you are one of those quiet Scorpios who tend to hide in a shell, you need to get out! If you set yourself a goal of meeting someone new every week, chances are high your sex-appeal will work wonders for you.
You´re sending mixed signals. It takes a while to get to know a Scorpio, you don´t let people in easily, and this could make your crushes guess if you even like them. Find a way to let them know you´re interested, but that it will take a little while for your flower to bloom.
Turn off the drama. Jealousy and anger will not only give you paranoia, they will also make you act crazy and scare someone, especially in a new relationship. What´s the deal Scorpio? Who could be sexier than you anyway?!