If Xxxtentacion really wants to improve and transform themselves, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding them back and preventing their evolution:
– their excessive independence
– their fear of commitment
– their eccentricity
– their instability
– their fear of intimacy

To trust Xxxtentacion better and gain self-assurance, the first thing Xxxtentacion must do is learn to say no. Once Xxxtentacion is capable of saying no to others, Xxxtentacion can say yes to life. Xxxtentacion must develop Xxxtentacion’s awareness of all the things Xxxtentacion loves and feel positive about, as well as all the changes Xxxtentacion hopes to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support Xxxtentacion, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of Xxxtentacion’s personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when Xxxtentacion was helpless may be obstacles to Xxxtentacion’s evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent Xxxtentacion from daring to confront challenges Xxxtentacion would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons Xxxtentacion yields to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to Xxxtentacion that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of Xxxtentacion’s identity. However, the more often Xxxtentacion reinforces this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware Xxxtentacion becomes of Xxxtentacion’s true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced Xxxtentacion’s pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for Xxxtentacion to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside Xxxtentacion that claims Xxxtentacion doesn’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of Xxxtentacion could undermine Xxxtentacion’s vitality and force Xxxtentacion to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, Xxxtentacion limits Xxxtentacion’s power to bring about a positive change in Xxxtentacion’s self or Xxxtentacion’s life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free Xxxtentacion, the first step is to free Xxxtentacion from the fears which prevent Xxxtentacion from taking full advantage of life. Xxxtentacion can succeed if Xxxtentacion arranges a relaxed, positive environment for Xxxtentacion, establishes sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, finds a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which Xxxtentacion can practice relaxation exercises.