If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution:
– your need to bluff
– your inability to manage certain things
– your instability
– your unwillingness to change certain opinions

You sometimes sense a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. Vanessa is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though Vanessa will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy Vanessa if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to Vanessa to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. Vanessa should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.