If RaeLynn really wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution:
– her insatiable appetites
– her stubbornness
– her grimness
– her reluctance to change

RaeLynn may experience discord in relationships. Although RaeLynn is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, RaeLynn often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, RaeLynn should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If RaeLynn succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.