If Merrick Hanna really wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution:
– his overweening ego
– his need to show off
– his aggressiveness
– his excesses
Merrick Hanna sometimes senses a conflict between their desire for social and professional success and their need for a stable, secure domestic life. They are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on them. Sometimes it feels as though they will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy them if they have neglected their most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to them to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if they merely sacrifice their domestic life, they are only trying to fool themselves. They should accept the fact that their domestic life is the true basis and foundation of their development. All their career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.
Merrick Hanna obeys a drive to live and accomplish their purpose in an intense and immediate way. Whenever they encounter direct resistance, they might find themselves beset by frustration. If the resistance lasts, they may eventually be overwhelmed by anxiety, nervous tension, and discouragement. In addition, Merrick Hanna has the ability to focus their strength and leadership potential on problems which require immediate solutions. Their lack of patience and persistence may spur problems.
Healthy emotional development for Merrick Hanna will require a conscious adaptation, because he is still the captive of sensations which have never been clarified, and, as a result, his sensitivity cannot really blossom fully. Although he seeks close relationships and intimacy with people he trusts to give him love and support, he sometimes feels alienated from other people and may withdraw into a remote bubble. Were he to open himself fully to the world of relations with others, by the means of continual, subtle changes, he could prepare himself for a total metamorphosis of his destiny. Both his sensitivity and his relationships would have access to a new path, more altruistic, open, and dedicated to others.