If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution:
– my shallowness
– my lack of sincerity
– my indifference
– my frivolity
– my fear of commitment

Lexi Rivera may experience discord in relationships. Although Lexi is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, Lexi often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Lexi should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Lexi succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.