If Devin Sola really wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution: – his insatiable appetites – his stubbornness – his grimness – his reluctance to change
Devin Sola may experience discord in relationships. Although Devin Sola is friendly and outgoing and commit Devin Sola to friendships and partnerships, Devin Sola often find it difficult to balance Devin Sola’s own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.
To understand and overcome this problem, Devin Sola should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Devin Sola succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Devin Sola and Devin Sola’s partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.
Devin Sola tends to lure others to them and gain their love and approval. As a lover, Devin Sola might be the impetuous type who rushes into a relationship without thinking, making a great show of affection at the outset. Devin Sola could learn to evaluate the pros and cons of an emotional commitment more carefully if they want to avoid leaving a trail of broken hearts.