Brandon Nicholas Salim if you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution: your perfectionism, your tendency to hyperfocus on minutiae, your over intellectualization, your comfort with a constant state of worry
Brandon Nicholas Salim has a great deal of vitality. He is always active and on the move and cannot sit still for any length of time. He rushes to act on his impulses, enthusiastic and filled with the strength of confidence in himself and his luck. Power lures him, and he is sometimes self-focused in an innocent and childlike way. His physical and creative energy predisposes him to become a captain or leader.
You must learn to say no to others in order to say yes to life. Developing awareness of all the things you love and feel positive about, as well as all the changes you hope to make in order to enjoy life more, will support you. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when you were helpless may be obstacles to your evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent you from daring to confront challenges you would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons you yield to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to you that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of your identity. However, the more often you reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware you become of your true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced your pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for you to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside you that claims you don’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of you could undermine your vitality and force you to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, you limit your power to bring about a positive change in yourself or your life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free yourself, the first step is to free yourself from the fears which prevent you from taking full advantage of life. You can succeed if you arrange a relaxed, positive environment for yourself, establish sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, finds a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which you can practice relaxation exercises.