If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your shallowness, lack of sincerity, indifference, frivolity, and fear of commitment.

You sometimes sense a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Brace Face Laii may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Brace Face Laii sometimes finds it difficult to stabilize their life and steer a steady course. They are proud of their intellectual abilities and even tend to overestimate them in a search for recognition and admiration. Yet, at other times, they might seem to scoff at other people’s opinions. At times, they tend to be overwrought and high-strung. They might want to schedule frequent rest periods for themselves.

Brace Face Laii’s personality is ruled by her mind, which uses her energy to conceive and create on the abstract plane. She is much more of a idealist than a pragmatist and does not become passionately engaged in human relationships, preferring a variety of casual contacts which demand little of her in return. As a result, it is sometimes difficult for her to remain in close emotional rapport with another person without feeling hemmed in and stifled. With her peers, her charm makes her popular, and she attracts all sorts of helpful friendships. Due to the ease with which she moves in society and her eloquence, she has undeniable talents for communications and teaching.