Bingham Bellamy seeks others in order to structure themselves. Intuitively sensing this need, they seek a balance between their individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return. Although it sometimes eludes them, marriage and friendship could be realms to which they are especially devoted. However, they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.

You were born under the auspices of two celestial lights – the sun and moon. This is a sign of the balance and harmony that can be found in the masculine and feminine archetypes. It is the source of understanding and balance between the conscious and unconscious parts of your personality, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, between your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents probably reflected a positive image of marriage to you, and this has helped to create a good relationship with them and the rest of your family. In your relationships with friends, one of the effects of the masculine and feminine balance is that the images your ego projects onto the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt as constraints, the energy that flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. There are no major conflicts that are projected onto the “other,” which is to say, the significant other.

You are sober and rather reserved and may even strike people as harsh and austere at times. You were raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety, and, as a result, grew up very fast. You have acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency, tend to be rather uncompromising, and have a touchy sense of your personal dignity and worth. It is almost as though you were fighting an inner battle with your father or a father figure. The psychological models you received from your father or a father figure as a result of your interaction and your own interaction with authority may have played a major role in shaping your relationships with the outer world and society. You may thus have been forced to compensate for this with individual determination. As a result, although you are skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, a lack of self-confidence and personal assurance sometimes makes you timid and hesitant. You sometimes feel as though you are only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. You tend to be far too critical of yourself and rarely feel satisfied that you are living up to your ideal. These unnecessary guilt feelings may lead you to turn down the prominent career positions for which you are fully qualified. You are aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile and that time rewards those who know how to be patient and persistent, like you.

Bingham Bellamy is winning and attractive. He has an appetite for intense emotional experiences, especially in terms of his relationships. Enjoying the power of his personal appeal, he easily controls his emotions and only rarely reveals the true depth of his feelings. Because his instincts take precedence over his sensitivity, he is capable of becoming jealous, possessive, and even rather harsh, without meaning to. More of a flirt than a voluptuary, he is attentive to desire. As a result, his love life will sometimes be casual and complicated.

Bingham Bellamy has a lively, agile, and sensitive intellect. However, he does not always avail himself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although he enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, his thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. He is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste his nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Moreover, his feelings sometimes blur his objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause him to make errors in judgment.

Bingham Bellamy has a sensitive and affectionate nature. He seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. His relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and he has a natural sense of tact and social grace.

You are an expansive individual who is communicative and affable. Indeed, some people find you generous almost to a fault! You give of yourself and your resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when you are self-focused and react instinctively. As a result, your everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, you sense a conflict between your social life and your family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill yourself in both spheres at the same time. Your attitude toward your private life may inhibit your ambitions for social or career expansion. However, if you and your partner analyzed the problem, you may be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.

Bingham Bellamy is emotional and tends to react suddenly and excessively as soon as his sensitivity is touched. Although he feels that his independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, he is sometimes frustrated by his need to rely on his family or friends. Moreover, he does not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as his own. Likewise, he is sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if he feared that it would doom him to eternal dependency. His ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship he had with his mother or a mother figure. Although he was dependent on them, they may have rejected him. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which his sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off his feelings of dependency, he sometimes tends to become destructive. Based on denial, his reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.

Bingham Bellamy has a sensitive and imaginative mind, which can sometimes lead to difficulty distinguishing between dreams and reality. Although his imagination can be a source of inspiration for creative and spiritual evolution, it is less helpful and positive when it comes to matters of earning a living in the real world. In a relationship, Bingham is extremely romantic and does not always see others the way they really are. He has elegant tastes and art and beauty are one of his chief pleasures in life.

Bingham Bellamy was born with a sensitive nature. This has led to her preferring to keep her emotions close to her chest. She is drawn to the intense emotions in life, and her relationships are usually fuelled by her desires. She would find a career in psychiatry particularly rewarding as it would allow her to understand the hidden side of people.

Bingham Bellamy has a romantic nature and is seeking a soulmate. The world of his emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule his sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.

Bingham Bellamy was born with an emotional function that is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

Bingham Bellamy emerges from an inhibited adolescence to become a person who knows what he wants. He is quite possessive, and his likes and dislikes are strong and forthright. As time passes, his home and possibly children, to which he would be deeply attached, will become his focus.

A happy-go-lucky wanderer, he often sees the grass as being greener elsewhere, including in terms of his relationships. He will no doubt end up marrying the person who is most devoted to him. Tender and faithful, they will leave him free to live his life as he wishes, while protecting him or lovingly raising his children.

Bingham Bellamy may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive him to seek pleasure. His need for romantic fulfillment may compel him to marry, because he also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that he had indeed achieved success. However, privately, he might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.

You are hypersensitive and tend to relive the anxieties, apprehensions, and romantic absolutes of your first love relationships, which occurred around the ages of 13-14 years or 20-21 years. You are exquisitely sensitive, but almost completely barricaded behind a layer of aloofness. You will not settle for anything less than eternal commitment, total harmony, and absolute loyalty. You are sometimes presumed to be cold, even by those close to her. You usually hide your emotional reactions or do not even allow them to reach the level of your consciousness, in an effort to protect your sensitivity, which you see as your weak point. You are fairly vulnerable, even in the intimacy of a stable and established relationship. Usually, you will disguise your strong feelings as a kind of possessiveness or even jealousy. Certain misfortunes may arouse a negative emotional state inside you, and you feel unworthy of the love which is lavished on you. This psychological prohibition which rules over all of your desires and affects should loosen with the passage of time; likewise, your fear of approaching the other will diminish. As a result, the second part of your romantic life will be more rewarding. In any case, if you want to experience a harmonious love relationship and gratify yourself emotionally, the defense mechanisms you have elaborated to make yourself inaccessible to others will have to be dismantled. Any profound relationship will also require that you learn how to forget yourself occasionally in the other.

You have a passionate and ardent character, and your relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Your greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although you merge your ego entirely into the couple, you are likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If your partner charms and captivates you long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with you; otherwise, you are likely to yield to your need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for you.

Midlife may be a turning point for you from this point of view. Your contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Your behavior enables you to remain aloof, to commit yourself only halfway without consciously admitting it to yourself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when you lose interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps you from forming stable relationships. Indeed, you are tormented by the struggle between your undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, your romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by your conviction that your partner has become an obstacle to your individual progress. Because you think of love as a restraint, you may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, you will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, you are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires you to initiate a change in your behavior.

You are a complex individual, full of contradictions. You sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, so you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.

Ruled by your determination and vital needs, the intellectual abilities of Bingham Bellamy come to the forefront when communicating your ideal and plotting your action or strategy. Logical and astute, you have gifts for theorizing but may sometimes lack perspective.

Bingham Bellamy tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.

Bingham Bellamy has a lively and agile spirit. He is curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences with an attitude free of dogmatism and prejudice. As a result of his great mental vitality, Bellamy tends to have an opinion on every subject, but he does not always have the patience necessary to examine a subject in-depth. Bellamy enjoys manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses himself with witty remarks, satire, and controversy. If Bellamy learned to control his flow of words and elaborate his thoughts more, he could make a talented communicator. Because Bellamy is often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform his ideas, he is sometimes misunderstood. Bellamy is often blind to the rashness of his judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around him. If Bellamy were to succeed in disciplining his mind somewhat, he would have innumerable opportunities to apply his communications skills to a great career. However, Bellamy would do well to be careful of his nerves.

Bingham Bellamy is a person who makes mistakes in judgment. Their understanding of things is not always in tune with social realities or prevailing opinion. Their judgments tend to be hasty; their decisions are reckless. Moreover, they tend to overestimate their abilities and usually aim higher than might be realistic. Once an enterprise or project is underway, they may try to avoid obstacles by dodging certain duties. Because their vision of the world differs somewhat from social realities, they should be extremely careful and scrupulous in regard to legal matters, in order to avoid any complications of that type. They are sometimes slightly dishonest in their relations; they may break promises or attempt to duck responsibility. However, they should realize that such conduct toward other people is also a form of unconscious self-loathing. If they continue to behave in such a way, they are exposing themselves to the same lack of sincerity from their partners.