Ben Varon tries to restrain and control his instincts, but they’re always there, waiting to take over. He has a fairly ascetic lifestyle, denying the importance of the most archaic and dark forces within him. If he hopes for a more harmonious development, he’ll have to realize that instincts can be tamed; they don’t react positively to being trampled.
Ben Varon,
Your personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling your psyche. Because your sensitivity is in conflict with your determination, your attitude and performance may sometimes be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, you have the feeling you have to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging your yearnings and fulfilling your ambitions. Your unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of your conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage your plans. In your relationships, the images you build up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, might also annoy you. You could find it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.
Ben Varon is lively and expressive. He has a personality that is sometimes agitated but straightforward. Unconscious feelings of insecurity compel him to act and sometimes to seek the admiration of others. As a result, he is unable to bear idleness and routine, and he is in search of perpetual excitement. His reactions to others are highly individual and depend on the mood he is in at any given moment. A person of decision, a businessperson or an athlete, Ben Varon often personifies boldness and impetuosity. His love life is liable to be fiery, as it obeys the imperatives of his desire for freedom and independence, and his need for change.
Ben Varon has a sensitive personality. He may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. He is subject to cyclical energy flows and go from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in his behavior may be explained by emotional problems he may have experienced in infancy: his mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Ben Varon thought about the things that had been said to him in the last few days. He tried to parse them all and figure out what it all meant. He could feel the anger and frustration bubbling up inside him, but he tried to tamp it down. He needed to be patient and he needed to figure out what was going on.
He thought back to what had happened the night before. He and his girlfriend had been out at a bar, having a few drinks and some laughs. They’d been having a good time and things had been going well. But then something had changed. She’d started to act strange. She’d been distant and quiet. Ben had tried to talk to her, but she’d just been non-responsive. He’d asked her what was wrong, but she’d just turned away from him and refused to answer. He didn’t know what to do, so he’d just left the bar and gone home.
He didn’t understand what was happening, but he knew that he needed to figure it out. He needed to talk to her and figure out what was going on. He needed to know why she was acting so strange.
Ben Varon is a complicated person, because of the conflict between his sensitivity and instincts. He is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite, and this can make him difficult to understand. He is also very passionate about sex, and his relationships are usually driven by his desires. However, because of his unconscious inner battle, he often struggles to reconcile and fulfill his emotional and sexual needs. This can cause him to get involved in situations he can’t always control, which can lead to erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.
Ben Varon tries to express his affections in the most graceful and harmonious way possible. Indeed, he has an innate sense of harmony and strives for a love relationship characterized by balance and perfection. He tends to idealize both his partner and the institution of marriage. Any disillusionment he encounters in the pursuit of his ideal may be experienced as a frustration. He does not always ply his powers of seduction skillfully.
Ben Varon’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, Ben Varon is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Ben Varon might struggle to feel comfortable with himself. He’s assertive in his relationships, especially with love interests, and at times, this could lead to conflict. He may be passionate. His instincts predominate over his reason and his senses supersede or distort his feelings, so his relationships are often jerky and abrupt. He would do well to find an activity that could channel his enormous potential. That will keep him from giving up on love.
Ben Varon has high hopes for a second marriage and his capacity for love could be eroded if he connects with someone who is more interested in their own affairs than in ensuring the happiness of their relationship. In this situation, his charm means that he will never be short of a shoulder to cry on. A second marriage may be happier than the first.
Ben Varon,
You have an ardent and amorous character, and your relationships with the other sex are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with your partners. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Love is often a matter of luck with you. Even when a relationship falls apart, you do not see the experience as a failure or a tragedy; instead, you seem to learn valuable lessons from your mistakes. Psychologically, your emotion contributes positively and efficiently to your evolution. From another standpoint, your acute sensitivity predisposes you to original and subtle tastes; you are so receptive to beauty and attached to the concepts of truth and balance that they may all combine to yield remarkable creative potential.
Ben Varon is attracted to wide open spaces and distant horizons; as a scholar, he feels an affinity for higher studies such as philosophy or law. However, foreign languages or contacts abroad might also interest him.
Ben Varon tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
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