If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be keeping you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your defensive attitudes, your fear of being dispossessed, your ambivalence, your radicalism, or your over-reliance on your instincts.

I often find it difficult to balance my own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, I should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If I succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship I and my partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

As a result of Beata Thunberg’s great ambitions, she is fairly organized. She is able to work long and hard to achieve her goals and elaborates fairly rigid strategies to protect herself against any foreseeable obstacles. She is so absorbed in her business that she does not always realize that she tends to be somewhat peremptory with the people around her and that she might do well to soften her tone and be more tactful at times. Her friendships seem stifling and superfluous to her, and she is sometimes tormented by inner conflict when she is forced to submit to another’s will. To succeed, work to be less dogmatic. Trust in yourself and other people and flexibility.

As you suggested earlier, Beata Thunberg is endowed with great sensitivity and has profound aspirations, especially romantic ones. Nevertheless, her spirit is sometimes too delicate for her to have armored and structured herself for the constraints of life out there in the real world. Moreover, she sees little point in devoting herself to fulfilling the demands of practical reality, which strike her as rather futile and empty. Her escapes into her fantasy world give her the illusion of a much greater reward. She tends to gloss over her vision of other people, and when they reveal their imperfections and incompetence, she feels guilty for them and suffers from her own vulnerability and illusions. She would do well to try to be more selective about the people she associates with; when she is moving in a dream world, she attracts the kind of dishonest people who are likely to take advantage of her.

Beata Thunberg is rather obstinate, stubborn, and impervious to outside influences. Although her determination is an asset in bringing plans and projects to completion, it may also arouse bitter hostility against her. To fit in best, she considers working on her flexibility and diplomacy.

Beata Thunberg is an energetic person with a vast amount of energy. She knows how to persevere and meet challenges, delays, and obstacles with determination and obstinacy, without altering her goals. She is fairly reluctant to change course as a result of outside intervention, preferring to bulldoze her way past any obstacles, slowly but steadily, rather than go around them. Sometimes her will is so powerful that she refuses to make any compromises or concessions, which may be a source of conflict with others. She might want to work on sharing her power or authority, which would allow her to accomplish more.