If Ashley Boettcher wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution. These could be her perfectionism, her tendency to hyperfocus on minutiae, her over intellectualization, and her comfort with a constant state of worry.

You sometimes feel a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Ashley Boettcher sometimes finds it difficult to stabilize her life and steer a steady course. She is proud of her intellectual abilities and even tends to overestimate them in a search for recognition and admiration. Yet, at other times, she might seem to scoff at other people’s opinions. At times, she tends to be overwrought and high-strung. She might want to schedule frequent rest periods for herself.

Ashley Boettcher has deeply anchored emotional needs. Invariably, she tries to revive these sensations from her personal history, clinging to the security provided by the repetition of a feeling which produced a positive effect in the past. Her desire for possession (tangible or emotional) could become a problem, because she may fixate on an object which is negative or bad for her. She will do well to make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious negative conditioning which may be related to her childhood.

Ashley Boettcher’s personality is governed by her mind, which uses her energy to conceive and create on the abstract plane. She is much more of an idealist than a pragmatist and does not become passionately engaged in human relationships, preferring a variety of casual contacts which demand little of her in return. As a result, it is sometimes difficult for her to remain in close emotional rapport with another person without feeling hemmed in and stifled. With her peers, her charm makes her popular, and she attracts all sorts of helpful friendships. Due to the ease with which she moves in society and her eloquence, she has undeniable talents for communications and teaching.