If you want to improve, Arj Barker suggests becoming aware of your weaknesses. These could include your pride and temper, your need for praise, and your struggles to tolerate criticism.

Arj Barker’s emotions are fluctuating and unstable. Although he has the ability to detach himself from his emotions to analyze and observe them, this tendency sometimes prevents him from truly engaging himself in emotional terms and may act as a defense against any emotional impact. This is the reason why he subjects all his feelings to an intellectual interpretation rather than yielding to them. It is also the reason why he might falter, hesitate, contradict himself and seem to say both yes and no when he has an opportunity to commit himself emotionally. He should make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious conditioning which may be related to his childhood. He must first learn to observe and assimilate other people’s feelings instead of rejecting them. This exercise will teach him to understand his own reactions and affects better.

Arj Barker often becomes too tense and irritable when trying to stick to a task. He is easily bored and distracted, and his bouts of inattention usually keep him from engaging in any action completely. He often starts a multitude of projects, but rarely finishes them, because meanwhile he has started some new enterprises. It might be advisable for Arj Barker to learn to coordinate his energies and actions, if he wants to avoid exhausting his vitality.