If you’re serious about becoming a better person, the first step is becoming aware of your weaknesses and how they’re holding you back. These can be things like your fear of commitment, your fear of intimacy, or your excessive independence. If you want to make real progress, you need to face these fears and start working on fixing them.

Ari Shaffir’s personality is ruled by his mind, which uses his energy to conceive and create on the abstract plane. He is much more of a pragmatist than an idealist and does become passionately engaged in human relationships, preferring a variety of casual contacts which demand little of him in return. As a result, it is sometimes difficult for him to remain in close emotional rapport with another person without feeling hemmed in and stifled. With his peers, his charm makes him popular, and he attracts all sorts of helpful friendships. Due to the ease with which he moves in society and his eloquence, he has undeniable talents for communications and teaching.