Ant Middleton seeks others in order to structure themselves. Intuitively sensing this need, they seek a balance between their individual ambitions and the need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return. Although it sometimes eludes them, marriage and friendship could be realms to which they are especially devoted. However, they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.
Ant Middleton’s personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling his psyche. Because his sensitivity is in conflict with his determination, his attitude and performance may sometimes be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, he has the feeling he has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging his yearnings and fulfilling his ambitions. His unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of his conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage his plans. In his relationships, the images he builds up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, might also annoy him. He could find it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.
Ant Middleton has a taste for luxury and magnificence, for a dazzling social life and a distinguished career. When things are going well for him, he tends to think of himself as the center of the universe, an attitude which those close to him do not always appreciate. Although he is quite likely to succeed in his ambition to become wealthy and popular and lead a remarkable life in the outer world, his lack of moderation and overweening self-confidence expose him to some danger. His exaggerated optimism could create difficulties by causing him to make errors in judgment.
Ant Middleton is sober and reserved and may even strike people as rigid and austere at times. Perhaps he was raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety as a child, and, as a result, became an adult a little too fast. In any case, he quickly acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency and a strong sense of his personal dignity and worth. At work, he is skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, but his lack of self confidence and personal assurance hinder his decision-making skills. Although he would deserve a prominent executive position, he might refuse any that are offered due to his fear of being in the limelight. He is aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile and that time rewards those who are patient, which, in his case, is true. The psychological mechanisms described above are probably the result of a paternal complex. In childhood, his identity may have been too strongly attached to that of his father or a father figure, for one of the following reasons:- the bond with his father was too close,- his father was absent and/or idealized,- his father was too strict, etc.
In any case, this psychological particularity can act either as a handicap or as an opportunity for the individual to overcome yourself. It will result in two groups of opposite but complementary reactions which will rule his behavior all his life:- hypersensitivity or insensitivity- intense life wish or discomfort with life- obsession or renunciation- skepticism or fanaticism- asceticism or lust- jealousy or indifference- effort or laziness
The so-called “Saturnian” phases (at age 7, 14, 21, 28 or 29, and 35 years) will be transitional periods that give him an opportunity to resolve this complex in real life.
Ant Middleton could feel the insecurity creeping up on him. He craved order in his life and preferred to do things according to a predetermined plan, but this required a great effort. He was rigid, struggled to make friends easily, and was sometimes wary of relations with those he was most attracted to. He was gifted at worrying, and it constantly weighed on him.
Ant Middleton is hypersensitive to the mood in her surroundings. She is unconsciously able to perceive the parapsychic signals or aura people give off, in addition to their words. As a result, she is extremely compassionate and ready to devote herself to their well-being. Her imagination has formulated the dream of an ideal life, and she sometimes feels ill-equipped for the realities of this existence. She tends to dodge difficult situations. With her partner, she seeks fusion.
Although Ant Middleton’s demeanor is cool and distant, he is extremely sensitive. In some cases, his rather austere and rigid behavior and his refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. He has spells of melancholy in which he does not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid himself any emotional fulfillment whatsoever. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. It is difficult for Ant Middleton’s inner self to be detached from this past life, and he sometimes has trouble reconciling the image he has of himself as an adult with the one he acquired back then. The idea he has of himself as an individual is related to the image his parents projected onto him as a child. Nevertheless, the past is history, and Ant Middleton is now an adult. Through self-work, he can rid himself of these phantoms. He has the ability to overcome his mistakes, as well as great endurance and will power to achieve his goals. Nevertheless, he must not repress his sensitivity in order to succeed.
Ant Middleton sometimes sensitive and emotive cringes from life, passively hoping for a better future, a utopian society, or a transcendent state of consciousness. However, by taking refuge in dreams, he may expose himself to adversity, both socially and in his private life.
Ant Middleton is emotional and reacts quickly and excessively to sensitivity. Although Ant feels that independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, Ant sometimes gets frustrated with needing to rely on friends or family. Moreover, Ant does not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as Ant’s own. Likewise, Ant is sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if Ant feared that it would doom Ant to eternal dependency. Ant’s ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship Ant had with Ant’s mother or a mother figure. Although Ant was dependent on them, they may have rejected Ant. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which Ant’s sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off Ant’s feelings of dependency, Ant sometimes tends to become destructive. Based on denial, Ant’s reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Ant Middleton has fairly lofty amorous aspirations. The soulmate she imagines for herself is brilliant and dazzling with an array of talents and beauty. However, the gap between her splendid ideal and reality is sometimes wide. She should be careful not to confuse her romantic ideal with reality and become aware that her tendency to project may be a way of fleeing from herself.
Ant Middleton’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, Ant is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Ant Middleton is a sensitive person who is plagued by self-doubt. He has a contradictory personality, torn between his nearly mystical need for love and the practical aspect of things. He is timid and rather inhibited, so he is generally careful to confine himself to the sidelines. As a result, many chances could pass him by. If a virile mate took him under their wing, he would thrive. Otherwise, he might find happiness with someone as sensitive and timid as himself, who knows how to understand him in all his complexity.
Ant Middleton must not confuse the heart’s logic with sexual needs. This is the psychological rule at the root of Ant’s suffering and disappointments. Carried away by an overwhelming physical attraction, Ant may find himself in the arms of a jealous partner. Ant would be well advised to take a long, hard look at his feelings before committing to a long-term relationship.
Ant Middleton has the passionate, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of Ant’s main purposes in life. Ant’s personal charm and magnetism are compellingly seductive; unfortunately, Ant’s attempts at conquest do not always lead to the fulfillment and satisfaction of Ant’s desires. Due to Ant’s impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, Ant’s approach to those Ant is attracted to may sometimes lack tact and delicacy. As a result of the foregoing, it may be somewhat difficult for Ant to maintain stable and harmonious relationships. Indeed, Ant’s emotional behavior is subject to a conflict between Ant’s quest for love and Ant’s need to satisfy Ant’s lust. Ant’s outpourings of affection and Ant’s need to be loved in return sometimes create complicated situations in which lust may be confused with love, or love may exist without lust, and Ant may feel unrequited or unfulfilled. This inner contradiction is a sign of Ant’s tendency to derive pleasure from suffering – either Ant’s own or that of Ant’s partner. The relationship thus becomes the setting for a sort of power struggle, weakening it as a source of psychological equilibrium. Nevertheless, Ant could sublimate this difficulty through artistic expression.
You have an ardent and amorous character, and your relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Your greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although you merge your ego entirely into the couple, you are likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If your partner charms and captivates you long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with you; otherwise, you are likely to yield to your need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for you. Midlife may be a turning point for you from this point of view. Your contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Your behavior enables you to remain aloof, to commit yourself only halfway without consciously admitting it to yourself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when you lose interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps you from forming stable relationships. Indeed, you are tormented by the struggle between your undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, your romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by your conviction that your partner has become an obstacle to your individual progress. Because you think of love as a restraint, you may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, you will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, you are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires you to initiate a change in your behavior.
Ant Middleton has a great emotional ideal, full of subtlety and tenderness. However, she tends to be overwhelmed by her imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. Her romantic and trusting nature may make her vulnerable. Although she strives to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, she sometimes experiences painful disappointments. Her artistic delicacy and refinement provide her with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. She is likely to be a gifted poet.
Ant Middleton has a mental aptitude for comparing, evaluating, and weighing information. This intellectual modus operandi has enabled him to develop an innate sense of values, both artistic and ethical, as well as a remarkable ability to relate to other people. His appreciative, conciliatory attitude makes him a skillful diplomat able to untangle conflict situations deftly and with ease. In other situations, his artistic spirit is sensitive to a wide variety of harmonies.
Ant Middleton tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
Ant Middleton has a lot of intuition, but sometimes he has problems organizing his thoughts and making an intellectual commitment. Concepts like boundary and structure are inimical to his mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. His thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. He tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, he can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although his perceptions are lively and subtle, he may display a kind of absent-mindedness, out of a fear of annoying people with his shrewdness or of fighting to assert himself. His imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.
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